i reallllly want best cuz i really neeeeed 10 points!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please pick this one
badly enough to answer this question
I can take it or leave it...
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Sunday, March 29, 2009
What would you think this girls opinion is about my music?
I had recently tried to kill myself, and one of my ex's friends found out and started crying and hugging me. i don't know if she would wanna date me or be friends. Right after i tried to killed myself, we talked for like an hour after school and we had fun and i showed her one of my songs i made on my ipod. i know it sounds like BS to say it is good, but several people asked me for a burned copy. when she was listening, she was looking deep into my eyes and we were almost touching noses for a minute and she didn't say anything about the song, but she seemed affected by it because it is a beautiful yet depressing song. what do you think she thought of it. also with what little i told you, does she wanna possibly date??
berry-i think yu should realise that life has a whole lot of beauty in it-and im glad yu're here to ask this question..
anyway i think the content of your songs have a cryout -as in its a revelation of your emotional state whilst choosing the playlist..shes definitely someone whos considerate-as yu can see she saw thru the music and felt your pain..
jus keep in touch with her-yu never know wat this could develop-and yu know-dont assume if she wants to date-show your interest in her-and make her feel like she matters..and im sure she'll tell yu she wants it..all the best :)
it sounds more like she feels sorry for you
and suicide is such a shallow and immature thing.
i hope you know that telling people that makes you look like your
just dying for attention
or at least trying to.
she probably grasped a better and deeper understanding about you. i'm pretty sure she'd like to know more about you, so i'd get to know her better first, become good friends and then take it from there.. you never know. she might make the first move! good luck! (:
Nice how everyone's totally down with you trying to kill yourself and you guys just have some casual convo afterwards.
Yes. absolutely
It sounds like she's been touched with your music, and I think she'd go out with you.
Talk to her more, be better friends, then she might.
yep .
ask her out she likes you
berry-i think yu should realise that life has a whole lot of beauty in it-and im glad yu're here to ask this question..
anyway i think the content of your songs have a cryout -as in its a revelation of your emotional state whilst choosing the playlist..shes definitely someone whos considerate-as yu can see she saw thru the music and felt your pain..
jus keep in touch with her-yu never know wat this could develop-and yu know-dont assume if she wants to date-show your interest in her-and make her feel like she matters..and im sure she'll tell yu she wants it..all the best :)
it sounds more like she feels sorry for you
and suicide is such a shallow and immature thing.
i hope you know that telling people that makes you look like your
just dying for attention
or at least trying to.
she probably grasped a better and deeper understanding about you. i'm pretty sure she'd like to know more about you, so i'd get to know her better first, become good friends and then take it from there.. you never know. she might make the first move! good luck! (:
Nice how everyone's totally down with you trying to kill yourself and you guys just have some casual convo afterwards.
Yes. absolutely
It sounds like she's been touched with your music, and I think she'd go out with you.
Talk to her more, be better friends, then she might.
yep .
ask her out she likes you
What do you think happened?
The other day a guy at work bought a pack of soda, so to be cute, i stuck my number in between the cans and left it there so when he got home. Unfortunately, he never texted/called, so now i feel like a complete loser and i have to see him at work again. What happened and what should i do?
Try not to be cute but be more direct. If I saw something like that I would have thought it was a) trash that accidentely fell into the soda - I wouldn't have even read the note; or b) some mean joke by my office buddies to make me call you up and look like an idiot. The note probably got lost without being read.
Next time at work tell him you are really embarrassed, but you really just wanted to be cute. He'll naturally be perplexed and say "huh?", at which point you tell him that you tried to give him your phone number in his soda cans. Once again, he'll say "huh?", which will be your opportunity to say "well, I think you're very attractive. Can you call me sometime so we can date?"
Nice, direct, and impossible to misinterpret. If he says no to that, you can save face by saying, "well, I really do think you're attractive and whatever girl you're with is a lucky woman". That's flattering, and you two should get on pretty well after that.
Try not to be cute but be more direct. If I saw something like that I would have thought it was a) trash that accidentely fell into the soda - I wouldn't have even read the note; or b) some mean joke by my office buddies to make me call you up and look like an idiot. The note probably got lost without being read.
Next time at work tell him you are really embarrassed, but you really just wanted to be cute. He'll naturally be perplexed and say "huh?", at which point you tell him that you tried to give him your phone number in his soda cans. Once again, he'll say "huh?", which will be your opportunity to say "well, I think you're very attractive. Can you call me sometime so we can date?"
Nice, direct, and impossible to misinterpret. If he says no to that, you can save face by saying, "well, I really do think you're attractive and whatever girl you're with is a lucky woman". That's flattering, and you two should get on pretty well after that.
I am at a relationship standstill....and I dont know what to do ... I love him BUT?
but he refuses to move out of his parents house and in with me. We've been together for 3 years. Everytime I try to talk with him about it, he tells me he im pressuring him and just laughs in my face. Im so sick of it. I am at a point where i want to have a real relationship, co-dependence with someone, and eventually get married. I feel like he is wasting my time. I love him, yes, but he is just so immature .He always throws it back in my face saying that i just want someone to protect me, that i just want cheaper rent, and that he doesnt believe people should live together till marriage. I always feel like I have to pitch a sales presentation everytime I want him to just sleep with me, god forbid he sleeps over more than 1 time a month. He is 26, and I am 23. Everytime I talk to him anymore, I feel annoyed. The other night I tried to bring it up, and he shot down all the reasons why I wanted it and i finally just said " you know, I should NOT have to beg, or sell this idea, if you are so disqusted by the idea of living with me, than we won't. But im not going to continue to see you if its going to be like this. I am not happy."
omg what do i do? everytime he calls me I just dont even feel like answering the phone. because i know he wont listen, and our relationship will never ever evolve.
Obviously and clearly, this guy of yours is so "not ready" to move out and not ready to experience what the rest of the world would call-- "independence living". It's like he's a full grown bird, but not quite sure if he should leave the nest yet and can't imagine the idea of being away from his mommy and daddy. Why leave the nest and look for food on your own when mommy and daddy continues to bring food and feed you? That's just his way of rationalizing it and seems to even get a little agitated and annoyed everytime you "pressure" him to move out. At least that's what he calls it, right? It's funny how you mentioned that everytime you ask him to move out he suddenly seems so "self-righteous" about believing that "people should not live together till marriage" and goes on to cry like a lil' boy of how you just want someone "to protect you" and "just want cheaper rent". Unbelievable how this guy of yours have such justifiable reasons (so he thinks) to make certain that you are convinced that what he say are so logical and rational as if he wants to give you a guilt trip. Doesn't it seems so though? God, you must really place this guy on a pedestal for him to lash out at you like that and go as far as giving in to him almost everytime. That certainly is a weakness that he seems to enjoy taking advantage of.....of course, without you consciously being aware of it until now, since I brought it up.
I understand intentions like his kind and excuses for their lack of independence and "afraid" to leave the nest are ways of always justifying their so-called "rational reasons." Still a lil' scared boy who isn't ready to become a real man yet and NEVER try to turn a boy into a man when he is still feeding from his momma's breast.
Good luck with the man on the pedestal...so self-righteous and almost god-like. Most guys can't wait to go out into the world and live life independently, with or without a girl, but this guy of yours seems weird in that way. It's beyond my comprehensions. Sorry if I couldn't be of more help but instead seems more critical of this guy of yours behavior and his lil' boy image. The only other thing I could think of why he justify his not wanting to move out is because he is not ready to seriously commit himself into this relationship as of yet and deep down inside, still wants his options open as far as you being "the one " and may even have second thought. Who knows?
btw, I am 26 yrs old too and had been out on my own since the age of 17.....Thank God. Not that I don't love my parents because I do love them dearly, but I couldn't wait to go out on my own and discover what the real world and independence living were all about.
Oooh...well I wanna be positive, but it doesn't sound too good. I think he's got some stuff of his own to work out before he can really make you happy.
I understand where you're coming from. You shouldn't have to present a sales pitch to get him to be interested. He is 26 years old and should not be still living at home with his mother and father. He should WANT to live with you, or at least not at home. He does seem very immature in a few different ways. I think that what you said about not continuing seeing him is good because you're being honest by telling him you're not happy. Maybe you should spend some time apart and try to cool off before you two tackle this issue again.
omg what do i do? everytime he calls me I just dont even feel like answering the phone. because i know he wont listen, and our relationship will never ever evolve.
Obviously and clearly, this guy of yours is so "not ready" to move out and not ready to experience what the rest of the world would call-- "independence living". It's like he's a full grown bird, but not quite sure if he should leave the nest yet and can't imagine the idea of being away from his mommy and daddy. Why leave the nest and look for food on your own when mommy and daddy continues to bring food and feed you? That's just his way of rationalizing it and seems to even get a little agitated and annoyed everytime you "pressure" him to move out. At least that's what he calls it, right? It's funny how you mentioned that everytime you ask him to move out he suddenly seems so "self-righteous" about believing that "people should not live together till marriage" and goes on to cry like a lil' boy of how you just want someone "to protect you" and "just want cheaper rent". Unbelievable how this guy of yours have such justifiable reasons (so he thinks) to make certain that you are convinced that what he say are so logical and rational as if he wants to give you a guilt trip. Doesn't it seems so though? God, you must really place this guy on a pedestal for him to lash out at you like that and go as far as giving in to him almost everytime. That certainly is a weakness that he seems to enjoy taking advantage of.....of course, without you consciously being aware of it until now, since I brought it up.
I understand intentions like his kind and excuses for their lack of independence and "afraid" to leave the nest are ways of always justifying their so-called "rational reasons." Still a lil' scared boy who isn't ready to become a real man yet and NEVER try to turn a boy into a man when he is still feeding from his momma's breast.
Good luck with the man on the pedestal...so self-righteous and almost god-like. Most guys can't wait to go out into the world and live life independently, with or without a girl, but this guy of yours seems weird in that way. It's beyond my comprehensions. Sorry if I couldn't be of more help but instead seems more critical of this guy of yours behavior and his lil' boy image. The only other thing I could think of why he justify his not wanting to move out is because he is not ready to seriously commit himself into this relationship as of yet and deep down inside, still wants his options open as far as you being "the one " and may even have second thought. Who knows?
btw, I am 26 yrs old too and had been out on my own since the age of 17.....Thank God. Not that I don't love my parents because I do love them dearly, but I couldn't wait to go out on my own and discover what the real world and independence living were all about.
Oooh...well I wanna be positive, but it doesn't sound too good. I think he's got some stuff of his own to work out before he can really make you happy.
I understand where you're coming from. You shouldn't have to present a sales pitch to get him to be interested. He is 26 years old and should not be still living at home with his mother and father. He should WANT to live with you, or at least not at home. He does seem very immature in a few different ways. I think that what you said about not continuing seeing him is good because you're being honest by telling him you're not happy. Maybe you should spend some time apart and try to cool off before you two tackle this issue again.
What in the world is wrong with him.?
He is on my brother's AAU baseball team. He didn't start talking to me until i added him on myspace and then we like gave eachother our phone numbers, and he would call me and text me and just be SOO nice. But then he got a girlfriend that lasted like 2 weeks, then another one that lasted ONE FREAKING DAY. So, i definitely came to the conclusion he is a "playuh" but then he started talking to me at the games and he talks to me like I'm one of his friends on the team and says kinda rude things. I said i wanted to arm wrestle him at the baseball tournament and he kept bragging saying he would crush me but then he kept post-poning it and backing out.[Im a gymnast so i have really toned muscle] so i don't know if he didn't want to be embarrassed in front of the team if he lost? and i texted him saying "we never got to arm wrestle!" and he texted me back telling me to "shut up?" thats when i just blew up on him..
This guy is nuts and trying to find himself, unless you want to be his guide dog I would disassociate myself from him entirely.
This guy is nuts and trying to find himself, unless you want to be his guide dog I would disassociate myself from him entirely.
Am I a lesbian, or just weird?
Ok, so this might sound a little weird... I've been with this guy for a very long time, and I plan on marrying him. The weird thing is I'm straight, but I look at porn with only girls, and it gets me super wet. Am I a lesbian for looking at naked girls, and loving it? Please help.
If you haven't had any relationships of a sexual nature with a female, then you are not a Lesbian. You are however curious. Before getting married you had better conclude this matter within yourself. You don't want to bring these feelings into a marriage. Don't think that getting married will make you forget or quell this curiosity. Getting involved in that type of behavior after getting married would be a devastating thing to do to a man that you claim to love.
I'm not saying to have a lesbian relationship to find out where you stand, but rather clear up the matter however long it takes, rather than destroying a relationship. And finally stop looking at porn! You may need professional help for that! Don't be a hypocrite with your boyfriend either.
No, you are just curious. You have been with your guy for a long time and this thing is new to you, and interesting. You will get over it eventually. It is very common for girls to find other girls sexually attractive.
No, I don't think so. If you feel really attracted to girls and things they do and say, then you might be a lesbian or bi. You might just be curious.
You're definitely not lesbian.
Its normal for straight girls to look at girl porns.
Women are simply just more attractive & sexy.
You're at the very least bi-curious I'd say and should experiment to find out what your true feelings are regarding other women.
Don't worry, your straight. I know plenty of girls who are the same way as you.
LEMOOOOON !
No you are just a normal horny female.
no, not really. guys actually thinks its hot and sexy if you watch porn with him too. lol >__>
lesbian.
put your guy out of his misery.
its the kindest thing to do
If you haven't had any relationships of a sexual nature with a female, then you are not a Lesbian. You are however curious. Before getting married you had better conclude this matter within yourself. You don't want to bring these feelings into a marriage. Don't think that getting married will make you forget or quell this curiosity. Getting involved in that type of behavior after getting married would be a devastating thing to do to a man that you claim to love.
I'm not saying to have a lesbian relationship to find out where you stand, but rather clear up the matter however long it takes, rather than destroying a relationship. And finally stop looking at porn! You may need professional help for that! Don't be a hypocrite with your boyfriend either.
No, you are just curious. You have been with your guy for a long time and this thing is new to you, and interesting. You will get over it eventually. It is very common for girls to find other girls sexually attractive.
No, I don't think so. If you feel really attracted to girls and things they do and say, then you might be a lesbian or bi. You might just be curious.
You're definitely not lesbian.
Its normal for straight girls to look at girl porns.
Women are simply just more attractive & sexy.
You're at the very least bi-curious I'd say and should experiment to find out what your true feelings are regarding other women.
Don't worry, your straight. I know plenty of girls who are the same way as you.
LEMOOOOON !
No you are just a normal horny female.
no, not really. guys actually thinks its hot and sexy if you watch porn with him too. lol >__>
lesbian.
put your guy out of his misery.
its the kindest thing to do
He doesn
My boyfriend and I were really close, and talked for AT LEAST an hour every day. Now, he only calls me for 20 seconds to say goodnight, after when I told him I usually go to bed. Doesn't ask how I am, what I did with my day, or anything. We always used to hang out after school while waiting for our buses, and he would spend all the time he could with me. Now, when he doesn't have to ride the bus home, he goes down to the bandroom and hangs out with other people. It's not that I have a problem with him spending time with his friends, it's just that it always used to be with me, because his mom doesn't allow him to see me outside of school, so I'm assuming that means he's loosing interest. Am I right? We're both fifteen btw.
It's pretty obvious, you're kinda just being a little ignorant to what signs he's giving off.
He thinks you don't like him, and he has a good reason. Maybe you could call him every now and then, or tell him you don't want him to go. I used to always call chicks and say I had to go just so they would try to stop me from going. You're barely expressing interest in him at all. Stop him from hanging up, say you're bored and you want him to keep talking to you.
It's pretty sad when you don't call a guy ever to him, because my ex gf used to always make me call her. She never called me once in our entire 6 month relationship, so one day, ... I just didn't call her at all. and I mean I seriously had not gone a single day without calling her.
Then I didn't call her the next day, or the next day. Then I just got all sad, felt like she didn't like me at all, and just never called her again. It was really horrible, I mean, we'd always talk for hours.
And... if he never asks how you are doing... is that maybe because every time he's ever asked you, you only respond with a "fine"??? Caues loads of chicks do that, so I finally stopped asking the quesiton altogether. Same thing with "What are you doing?" cause they only answer with a "Nothing. You?" and i say "Nothing."
If you know the answer before you ask somethign, it gets boring to ask after a while. Do you ask HIM that?
I'm pretty sure he thinks you don't care about him anymore.
It's pretty obvious, you're kinda just being a little ignorant to what signs he's giving off.
He thinks you don't like him, and he has a good reason. Maybe you could call him every now and then, or tell him you don't want him to go. I used to always call chicks and say I had to go just so they would try to stop me from going. You're barely expressing interest in him at all. Stop him from hanging up, say you're bored and you want him to keep talking to you.
It's pretty sad when you don't call a guy ever to him, because my ex gf used to always make me call her. She never called me once in our entire 6 month relationship, so one day, ... I just didn't call her at all. and I mean I seriously had not gone a single day without calling her.
Then I didn't call her the next day, or the next day. Then I just got all sad, felt like she didn't like me at all, and just never called her again. It was really horrible, I mean, we'd always talk for hours.
And... if he never asks how you are doing... is that maybe because every time he's ever asked you, you only respond with a "fine"??? Caues loads of chicks do that, so I finally stopped asking the quesiton altogether. Same thing with "What are you doing?" cause they only answer with a "Nothing. You?" and i say "Nothing."
If you know the answer before you ask somethign, it gets boring to ask after a while. Do you ask HIM that?
I'm pretty sure he thinks you don't care about him anymore.
10 points 4 da best answer.....help!ASAp need boyfren help?
ok the other day I had one of my close homeboys call my boyfren 4 me on 3 way & put his phone on mute ryt because I have mintues and I cant talk 2 my boyfren until afta 9 wen they are free or text him. But I really wanted to talk 2 him yesterday and one of my close homeboys have tmobile like I do so we do mobile 2 mobile I can still talk 2 my boyfren without gettin charged 4 it. But idk wat was wrong wit his phone but da first time he called my boyfren, he answered and sed hello but i didnt hear him so my homeboy clicked back ova n tol me y I didnt say nuin n I was like cuz I didnt hear anything so he called again & he put all 3 of us on da phone i heard my boyfreen say ppl keep callin but dey not sayin nuin so I sed hello n my homeboy sed wazup and i didnt hear my boyfren afta dat so I hung up I called my homeboy back n I was like omg y did u say somethin...now my boyfren rolly think somebody was playin on his phone and my homeboy was like nah he had already hung up and he aint hear us. SO I was like ok wateva I know he heard us. SO next thing u know few hours lata my boyfren texts me sayin: why you called playin on my phone? and I was like omg i wasnt playin on ur phone and I dint hear u say hello da first time....so datz y I called back and I sed hello but u hung up. So what I'm asken u guys is: why did he text me sayin dat do u think I shud call him explain da whole story or just leave it alone.......oh F.Y.I. weve been 2getha for 2 years now I'm 17 & he's 18.......And do u think he was mad or he just wanted 2 know wat happened??
Don't worry about it babe, I dont think he was mad at all, probably just confused.
It would be a good idea to just tell him the truth, and put his mind at ease otherwise he'll feel distanced from you because he may think you're keeping secrets or whatever.
Don't turn it into a big deal, just tell him you missed him and wanted to speak to him :)
Explain to him. You need to communicate.
look go with what you think you should do ok. Just don't loose him do whatever your heart tells you to do. Good Luck
Don't worry about it babe, I dont think he was mad at all, probably just confused.
It would be a good idea to just tell him the truth, and put his mind at ease otherwise he'll feel distanced from you because he may think you're keeping secrets or whatever.
Don't turn it into a big deal, just tell him you missed him and wanted to speak to him :)
Explain to him. You need to communicate.
look go with what you think you should do ok. Just don't loose him do whatever your heart tells you to do. Good Luck
For Da Fellas what do u look for in True love?
If u could narrow ur question, you could probably get a better answer. But moving on you asked for an answer and you will get one long though it may be.
Firstly the search (as I will call it is one of the most interesting processes). Even though you have asked for my opinion I would guess that your question has two parts. Now if there is a man u are in particular 'looking' at, or you are looking to find a 'good' man be cautious. First part of the caution is do not seek the 'thing' (relationship), over the person (the one you will relate to in the relationship). Second part of the caution is that if there is a 'good' man that you are looking at you need to be resolute enough that you do not pin all your hopes on 'him' if you do you will potentially be disappointed, not that there is anything wrong with you, but there is the potential to think it if u pin all ur hopes. If go forward with the mentality that it would be good 'if', but if not it is not the end of my life you are in a better position and are less likely to obsess.
Next part is that ideas placed here may not give you the most rounded view of what guys think, so do not be prepared to accept what is said because 'we said it', everyone is quintessentially individual and you have to judge each person on their own personal merits. Just thought I'd mention that I'm glad you are asking because alot of women talk to women who got their advice from 'women' lol.
So my opinion now, uuummm I look for a woman who can support me as well as me supporting her. A woman who understands herself and is able to apologise after outburts, understands she is not always right and does not excessively push me (nagging). A woman who is motivated and able to excel in all that she does. A woman who has faith in herself and faith in me (very poiniant). A woman who does not always speak but knows when to talk and when to keep quiet, finally the most important a woman who believes in and loves God. May seem like a big list but hey if you do not have a criteria you cannot appreciate the person when they arrive. But one key I believe is to know what you want and whether you are ready or not. For myself Iam not ready there are some things I need to sort out before I can seriously get into a relationship, but yeah hope that helped.
And remember seek the way you relate (true definition of relationship), Rather than having a person on your arm for the sake of people watching.
Firstly the search (as I will call it is one of the most interesting processes). Even though you have asked for my opinion I would guess that your question has two parts. Now if there is a man u are in particular 'looking' at, or you are looking to find a 'good' man be cautious. First part of the caution is do not seek the 'thing' (relationship), over the person (the one you will relate to in the relationship). Second part of the caution is that if there is a 'good' man that you are looking at you need to be resolute enough that you do not pin all your hopes on 'him' if you do you will potentially be disappointed, not that there is anything wrong with you, but there is the potential to think it if u pin all ur hopes. If go forward with the mentality that it would be good 'if', but if not it is not the end of my life you are in a better position and are less likely to obsess.
Next part is that ideas placed here may not give you the most rounded view of what guys think, so do not be prepared to accept what is said because 'we said it', everyone is quintessentially individual and you have to judge each person on their own personal merits. Just thought I'd mention that I'm glad you are asking because alot of women talk to women who got their advice from 'women' lol.
So my opinion now, uuummm I look for a woman who can support me as well as me supporting her. A woman who understands herself and is able to apologise after outburts, understands she is not always right and does not excessively push me (nagging). A woman who is motivated and able to excel in all that she does. A woman who has faith in herself and faith in me (very poiniant). A woman who does not always speak but knows when to talk and when to keep quiet, finally the most important a woman who believes in and loves God. May seem like a big list but hey if you do not have a criteria you cannot appreciate the person when they arrive. But one key I believe is to know what you want and whether you are ready or not. For myself Iam not ready there are some things I need to sort out before I can seriously get into a relationship, but yeah hope that helped.
And remember seek the way you relate (true definition of relationship), Rather than having a person on your arm for the sake of people watching.
Should i write her a love letter?
there's this girl in my class who I'm in love with,we've been kinda making small talk for like 2 weeks now and she always gives me this beautiful smile everytime she sees me, so i kinda broke the ice with her, ok the problem is shes always busy or in a hurry to get somewhere i only have her for one class in which after she goes home, so because shes so busy i want to write a love letter letting her know how i feel about her and ask her on a date somewhere, i plan on giving the letter to her on a friday so she can think about it over sat and sun.
what do you guys think? i'd tell her in person but shes too busy, i want to let her know how i feel Before i ask her out! shes 17 i'm 18.
oh and SHOULD i TYPE it? i have horrible hand writing, worse then a doctor!! lol
Although a love letter is a great way to get a girls attention. It takes a lot of thought and time because the words have to be perfect, not too over the top because you may risk pushing her away. But you need to get your thoughts/feelings across. I would say you are perhaps better off asking her to come out with you on the weekend sometime, or just ask her what she's doing on the weekend. You never know your luck she may even ask you to join her doing something. If she is really too busy for anything like that then go with the love letter. Good luck dude
PS - If you go with the love letter idea. Do it in your own hand writing!, it shows much more thought was put into it. And its kinda like something that anyone could of just printed off the internet on the computer.
what do you guys think? i'd tell her in person but shes too busy, i want to let her know how i feel Before i ask her out! shes 17 i'm 18.
oh and SHOULD i TYPE it? i have horrible hand writing, worse then a doctor!! lol
Although a love letter is a great way to get a girls attention. It takes a lot of thought and time because the words have to be perfect, not too over the top because you may risk pushing her away. But you need to get your thoughts/feelings across. I would say you are perhaps better off asking her to come out with you on the weekend sometime, or just ask her what she's doing on the weekend. You never know your luck she may even ask you to join her doing something. If she is really too busy for anything like that then go with the love letter. Good luck dude
PS - If you go with the love letter idea. Do it in your own hand writing!, it shows much more thought was put into it. And its kinda like something that anyone could of just printed off the internet on the computer.
Being too nice is getting me into trouble?
Ok, so I was raised by my sister really. I was taught what I guess you can say are more conservative(old fashioned) views, although she's a democrat herself. Wait until marriage, be kind to every girl. So I'm always being nice to girls, since that is what I was taught and my sister would kill me if I did otherwise. I transferred from a different school district at the beginning of the year, so few people knew my attitude. I was very preppy and stuck up at the beginning of the year, just a phase, and now I'm not stuck up at all and talk to every girl appreciatively. The only issue now really is that half the girls I talk to think I like them. I never really noticed how guys are supposed to only be nice to girls if they like him, because I don't see that as being nice? Anyways, what can I do to solve my dilemma?
I know how you feel, being too nice can give people the wrong idea about your feelings for them.I suggest you still treat these girls with respect and kindness and just let them think what they want.if they approach you because they like you,explain to them that you just would prefer a friendship with them and that you didnt mean to come off in that manner,you were just being friendly.good luck!
I know how you feel, being too nice can give people the wrong idea about your feelings for them.I suggest you still treat these girls with respect and kindness and just let them think what they want.if they approach you because they like you,explain to them that you just would prefer a friendship with them and that you didnt mean to come off in that manner,you were just being friendly.good luck!
How long have you been single and why?
Nearly one year. I have been studying a lot and I have just moved in to my own flat so I haven't even got time for myself never mind a boy although I sometimes crave that special someone to come along. There is someone out there for all of us.
why, because i havent found someone. i also have feelings for my friend/ex its complicated but i am certain he doesn't like me back. how long, i guess since he dumped me. met someone but that was a bit messed up. been single since the other guy
3months now.. cos my EX dumped me by ignoring with no reason..& calling me after 2,months to tell me hes got a GF..ha guys...i still love him though but..dont know what to do..i just hope the right guy finds me sooner cos i need to be in a hands of a real man...xx
on and off for about 6 months.
Because people are confused about how they feel about me.
All my life, as I have not found the right young lady for me.
for about 4 months because i broke up with my bf and not ready to date again.
32 days
he left
A whole year!!! idk why tho
why, because i havent found someone. i also have feelings for my friend/ex its complicated but i am certain he doesn't like me back. how long, i guess since he dumped me. met someone but that was a bit messed up. been single since the other guy
3months now.. cos my EX dumped me by ignoring with no reason..& calling me after 2,months to tell me hes got a GF..ha guys...i still love him though but..dont know what to do..i just hope the right guy finds me sooner cos i need to be in a hands of a real man...xx
on and off for about 6 months.
Because people are confused about how they feel about me.
All my life, as I have not found the right young lady for me.
for about 4 months because i broke up with my bf and not ready to date again.
32 days
he left
A whole year!!! idk why tho
Question about having sex?
We aren%26#039;t suppose to base a relationship on looks but personality...
How did sex become apart of personality? And when you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life, there%26#039;s something wrong or the person is cheating on you. And if they don%26#039;t want sex, they must be g.a.y. Explain.
This wouldn%26#039;t be an issue if people waited for marriage to have sex. Sex is very precious and sacred, but it%26#039;s a serious sin outside of marriage. WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!
I would have to say that sex became a part of personality because most men tend to date a woman based on whether or not she puts out. Re: cheating? Again, because most men date women based on whether or not they will give him sex, a woman will automatically think that her man is having an affair if he is not giving her enough attention emotionally and physically. You can thank the men who date women based on whether or not they will put out for the g.a.y thing as well. When women meet men, it is already in their heads that he wants sex above anything else. So when they hear a man say they don%26#039;t want to be with them for sex, they think he must be gay and move on.
A relationship is based on a number of things...attraction, compatible personalities, compatible goals and ambitions, satisfying intimate life (including sex), etc.
Sex isn%26#039;t part of personality, but it is part of most romantic relationships. When you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life together, there%26#039;s typically problems in the relationship...yes. When one or both parties aren%26#039;t satisfied with their sex lives, that tends to bleed over into other aspects of their life and relationship. It doesn%26#039;t necessarily mean anyone is cheating...
Not wanting sex has nothing to do with being gay. Homosexuals like sex too...it means there%26#039;s an issue. They are either no longer attracted to their partner, they are too tired or stressed to be interested in sex, something has occured to diminish their libido, or something else.
That%26#039;s your explanation. Not sure where you got your misinformation, but I hope this cleared things up a bit. Rarely is anything just black or white dear...
I think personality in some ways ties to sex because if you really like the other person your more willing to go out of bounds in being a bit more naughty to please each other. Plus personality ties back to trusting each other, that what happens in bed is b/w you guys %26amp; after having a crazy night I like to cuddle %26amp; feel all warm and safe.
I don%26#039;t think having an unhealthy sex life means that your partner is cheating on you. Well maybe if you seriously never do it. Though I think people have unhealthy sex lives because they get so caught up in everything else in the world that they forget each other. What everyone wants most is to feel loved and as people get comfortable with each other they often forget that they should express their love towards each other constantly. By hugging, kissing, or just simply spending time together like go out on a date and just enjoy. Make each other feel wanted ;)
Na I don%26#039;t believe just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to sleep with you it means they%26#039;re gay. Sex is the most intimate thing a couple could do, so often even when each person knows they shouldn%26#039;t someone would get attached because it%26#039;s just that closeness being share. So maybe someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex because they don%26#039;t have that level of trust %26amp; most people don%26#039;t just want one night stands. Since one night stands are kinda empty. I think a lot of people who are scared of relationships would prefer friends with benefits or F*** buddies. Idk... simply it could be there%26#039;s just no attraction so move on.
I think saving until marriage is cool, but really like 90% of people don%26#039;t wait. %26amp; if you do wait %26amp; realized that you ended up with someone who isn%26#039;t as sexually adventurous then, yea... kinda sucks for you.
Feelings is part personality. You want to express how you feel towards the other person. But having sex can send another person mixed signals... whether you really like them, or like them enough in the mean time to just %26quot;hook up%26quot; with them. If someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex, why would they have to be g a y ? I don%26#039;t get that part. G a y people like sex? Anyways... People don%26#039;t have to put out in order to keep people interested in them.
You know, I never understood that either.
Sex should be done with love behind it,
because if not, that%26#039;s how lust forms.
The physical attraction to a body,
witch in the end means nothing.
Just because someone does not want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they are gay!!
Maybe they are waiting until marriage. Or maybe they are just not ready.
if y%26#039;all had sex before and she don%26#039;t want to no more maybe she thinks your not good in bed
I agree with the second answer. Just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they%26#039;re gay!
It%26#039;s the modern society!
What they think to be alright is very stupid!
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How did sex become apart of personality? And when you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life, there%26#039;s something wrong or the person is cheating on you. And if they don%26#039;t want sex, they must be g.a.y. Explain.
This wouldn%26#039;t be an issue if people waited for marriage to have sex. Sex is very precious and sacred, but it%26#039;s a serious sin outside of marriage. WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!
I would have to say that sex became a part of personality because most men tend to date a woman based on whether or not she puts out. Re: cheating? Again, because most men date women based on whether or not they will give him sex, a woman will automatically think that her man is having an affair if he is not giving her enough attention emotionally and physically. You can thank the men who date women based on whether or not they will put out for the g.a.y thing as well. When women meet men, it is already in their heads that he wants sex above anything else. So when they hear a man say they don%26#039;t want to be with them for sex, they think he must be gay and move on.
A relationship is based on a number of things...attraction, compatible personalities, compatible goals and ambitions, satisfying intimate life (including sex), etc.
Sex isn%26#039;t part of personality, but it is part of most romantic relationships. When you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life together, there%26#039;s typically problems in the relationship...yes. When one or both parties aren%26#039;t satisfied with their sex lives, that tends to bleed over into other aspects of their life and relationship. It doesn%26#039;t necessarily mean anyone is cheating...
Not wanting sex has nothing to do with being gay. Homosexuals like sex too...it means there%26#039;s an issue. They are either no longer attracted to their partner, they are too tired or stressed to be interested in sex, something has occured to diminish their libido, or something else.
That%26#039;s your explanation. Not sure where you got your misinformation, but I hope this cleared things up a bit. Rarely is anything just black or white dear...
I think personality in some ways ties to sex because if you really like the other person your more willing to go out of bounds in being a bit more naughty to please each other. Plus personality ties back to trusting each other, that what happens in bed is b/w you guys %26amp; after having a crazy night I like to cuddle %26amp; feel all warm and safe.
I don%26#039;t think having an unhealthy sex life means that your partner is cheating on you. Well maybe if you seriously never do it. Though I think people have unhealthy sex lives because they get so caught up in everything else in the world that they forget each other. What everyone wants most is to feel loved and as people get comfortable with each other they often forget that they should express their love towards each other constantly. By hugging, kissing, or just simply spending time together like go out on a date and just enjoy. Make each other feel wanted ;)
Na I don%26#039;t believe just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to sleep with you it means they%26#039;re gay. Sex is the most intimate thing a couple could do, so often even when each person knows they shouldn%26#039;t someone would get attached because it%26#039;s just that closeness being share. So maybe someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex because they don%26#039;t have that level of trust %26amp; most people don%26#039;t just want one night stands. Since one night stands are kinda empty. I think a lot of people who are scared of relationships would prefer friends with benefits or F*** buddies. Idk... simply it could be there%26#039;s just no attraction so move on.
I think saving until marriage is cool, but really like 90% of people don%26#039;t wait. %26amp; if you do wait %26amp; realized that you ended up with someone who isn%26#039;t as sexually adventurous then, yea... kinda sucks for you.
Feelings is part personality. You want to express how you feel towards the other person. But having sex can send another person mixed signals... whether you really like them, or like them enough in the mean time to just %26quot;hook up%26quot; with them. If someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex, why would they have to be g a y ? I don%26#039;t get that part. G a y people like sex? Anyways... People don%26#039;t have to put out in order to keep people interested in them.
You know, I never understood that either.
Sex should be done with love behind it,
because if not, that%26#039;s how lust forms.
The physical attraction to a body,
witch in the end means nothing.
Just because someone does not want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they are gay!!
Maybe they are waiting until marriage. Or maybe they are just not ready.
if y%26#039;all had sex before and she don%26#039;t want to no more maybe she thinks your not good in bed
I agree with the second answer. Just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they%26#039;re gay!
It%26#039;s the modern society!
What they think to be alright is very stupid!
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PLEASE HELP!! How do I show my ex-boyfriend that I really love him?
My ex-boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship. We kept breaking up because he thought I was cheating on him with another guy. He said that if I can make him believe that I love him then he'll take me back. I have never gone to visit him, he has always come to visit me. I was thinking of making the 2,000 mile journey to visit him, complete with his favorite meal. I would pay for everything including the hotel room, and I want to have a nice long talk with him and let him know how much I love him. Is this a good way to do it or should I try something else to let him know how I feel about him?
It doesn't matter if you are in a long distance relationship
or in a non-distance relationship, if there is no trust, the
relationship wont last. If he cant trust you from a distance,
he wont trust you when your right next to him either. I wouldn't
make a 2.000 mile journey to visit a guy that has no trust
in me, no matter how much i love him. You did
nothing wrong, you got nothing to prove to him.
Love can scramble one's thoughts. Think of it from this view. If you did make that trip, made him that meal, and had that talk, what happens when he still wants to stay broken up? Most likely he's putting the blame on you, when in actuality he's cheating on you and broke up with you to be with another girl, and not the other way around
I think it's a perfect way to show him you love him. If he really loves you though, he should trust you and know that you would never do that to him. But, I do think that's an excellent way to show him that you truly honestly love him.
If he doesn't trust you the relationship isn't going to work out, sweetie.
Without trust there is no relationship. What makes you think things are going to be better this time?
It doesn't matter if you are in a long distance relationship
or in a non-distance relationship, if there is no trust, the
relationship wont last. If he cant trust you from a distance,
he wont trust you when your right next to him either. I wouldn't
make a 2.000 mile journey to visit a guy that has no trust
in me, no matter how much i love him. You did
nothing wrong, you got nothing to prove to him.
Love can scramble one's thoughts. Think of it from this view. If you did make that trip, made him that meal, and had that talk, what happens when he still wants to stay broken up? Most likely he's putting the blame on you, when in actuality he's cheating on you and broke up with you to be with another girl, and not the other way around
I think it's a perfect way to show him you love him. If he really loves you though, he should trust you and know that you would never do that to him. But, I do think that's an excellent way to show him that you truly honestly love him.
If he doesn't trust you the relationship isn't going to work out, sweetie.
Without trust there is no relationship. What makes you think things are going to be better this time?
How should I deal with this shy/confusing girl? Will rate best answer!?
When I asked this girl out a month ago she gave me a "my life is complicated so not right now" response. A few weeks later I asked if things were uncomplicated and she explained that she had something with this guy who wanted a break and she didn't want to get close to only hurt me if he comes around. So she stalled again with "I don't knows" and "not right now" while refusing to outright reject me.
I moved on and told her we should just be friends but in a way that meant I needed space. But she continued to catch up with me after class to walk together to our dorms and even got up early to study with me when we already did the previous night. So I decided to test the waters again and asked if she wanted to hang out over spring break and she agreed but mentioned something about maybe going away. Then on the following day she sent a flirtatious reply to a school-related email i sent out to our lab group which didn't need a response...
Is she interested in me now? She is really shy and emotional type so I don't think she will voluntarily reveal her feelings. I'm going away on a trip for half of spring break should I actually try and text/call her to hang out when I get back or do I have no shot and need to back away before I get even more attached?
I would say try the friendship thing for a little while. She sounds into you as for your into her. She sounds like she wants to but has been hurt before and is just scared to let her guard down and getting hurt again. If its ment to be it will happen, don't force it, just let it be and things will fall into place.
Sorry but she is trying to let you down gently.
I moved on and told her we should just be friends but in a way that meant I needed space. But she continued to catch up with me after class to walk together to our dorms and even got up early to study with me when we already did the previous night. So I decided to test the waters again and asked if she wanted to hang out over spring break and she agreed but mentioned something about maybe going away. Then on the following day she sent a flirtatious reply to a school-related email i sent out to our lab group which didn't need a response...
Is she interested in me now? She is really shy and emotional type so I don't think she will voluntarily reveal her feelings. I'm going away on a trip for half of spring break should I actually try and text/call her to hang out when I get back or do I have no shot and need to back away before I get even more attached?
I would say try the friendship thing for a little while. She sounds into you as for your into her. She sounds like she wants to but has been hurt before and is just scared to let her guard down and getting hurt again. If its ment to be it will happen, don't force it, just let it be and things will fall into place.
Sorry but she is trying to let you down gently.
Are women secretly competitive over men?
Even when it comes between friends? I used to date this girl for a week and nothing ever happened. Now I've been talking to one of our mutual friends and the girl I used to date (who is a good friend of mine) always get extra flirty with me when I'm with her (or any other girls). She is trying to ruin my game! lol. Can girls really usually this competitive or this caty over a guy?
Actually ya. But they are not like guys. so that means they do not really fight over men they kinda keep it to themselves. When a girl sees another girl flirting with her boyfriend she approches them and smiles, but really she is thinking what a hoe...Why is that girl talking to him?!?
Actually ya. But they are not like guys. so that means they do not really fight over men they kinda keep it to themselves. When a girl sees another girl flirting with her boyfriend she approches them and smiles, but really she is thinking what a hoe...Why is that girl talking to him?!?
When your in love...?
how do you feel when your in love?
when do you know when your in love?
When you fall asleep and wake up thinking of the same person.
When you think about them during the day, sometimes ALL day. :)
When you always want to talk to them, to see them.
When you WANT to say 'i love you'.
When you smile because you're thinking about being with them.
When you replay your moments together, over and over again.
When they love you the same way.
When you can be completely comfortable with them.
When they're completely comfortable with you.
When you know they're flaws and accept them.
When they make your day, everyday.
When you love just being with them, no matter the level of 'physical stuff' occurring, or not occurring.
When you can lie there and fall asleep because you trust them.
- The list goes on but I don't think I need to type it all out.-
When you're in love everything feels good, and at the same time everything could feel horrible depending on how your relationship with the other person is.
it is almost like an obsession at first: you cant get the person out of your mind and you cant wait to be with them. You are eager/nervous/anxious to be with them and everything you do isn't enough for them. You feel happier when you see them and/or you feel happier in everyday life. Sometimes you get random bouts of energy and want to be a little more outgoing. I love love, it is the most amazing thing ever <3
when do you know when your in love?
When you fall asleep and wake up thinking of the same person.
When you think about them during the day, sometimes ALL day. :)
When you always want to talk to them, to see them.
When you WANT to say 'i love you'.
When you smile because you're thinking about being with them.
When you replay your moments together, over and over again.
When they love you the same way.
When you can be completely comfortable with them.
When they're completely comfortable with you.
When you know they're flaws and accept them.
When they make your day, everyday.
When you love just being with them, no matter the level of 'physical stuff' occurring, or not occurring.
When you can lie there and fall asleep because you trust them.
- The list goes on but I don't think I need to type it all out.-
When you're in love everything feels good, and at the same time everything could feel horrible depending on how your relationship with the other person is.
it is almost like an obsession at first: you cant get the person out of your mind and you cant wait to be with them. You are eager/nervous/anxious to be with them and everything you do isn't enough for them. You feel happier when you see them and/or you feel happier in everyday life. Sometimes you get random bouts of energy and want to be a little more outgoing. I love love, it is the most amazing thing ever <3
I like this guy alot. Do I..tell him?
seriosly, I dont know! I think he MIGHT like me...
but thats so wierd! I told him i like someone, and hes begging me to tell him who. We talk alot, have inside jokes, and text. What do I do? He siad he kinda likes this girl outta school, but i dont know if he still does.
HELP?! what do I do?
tell him.. hint him off?
well if he wanted to know who you liked so badly... he probably does like you :]
i think you should just go ahead and tell him
the worst he can say is that he doesn't like you back...
and you two can go back to just being friends
good luck :]
if u like him jus keep talking to him. ur not in a relationship so u shouldnt feel like u have ta tell him everything and he tell you everything...jus see how he acts around you but never go an start thinkin one thing jus because he hugs u or looks at you a certain way... jus keep talking to him and see where things end up
i don't really know what you should do sorry
if he is your friend maybe you wouldn't want to upset your friendship but if he isn't i would go for it
but thats so wierd! I told him i like someone, and hes begging me to tell him who. We talk alot, have inside jokes, and text. What do I do? He siad he kinda likes this girl outta school, but i dont know if he still does.
HELP?! what do I do?
tell him.. hint him off?
well if he wanted to know who you liked so badly... he probably does like you :]
i think you should just go ahead and tell him
the worst he can say is that he doesn't like you back...
and you two can go back to just being friends
good luck :]
if u like him jus keep talking to him. ur not in a relationship so u shouldnt feel like u have ta tell him everything and he tell you everything...jus see how he acts around you but never go an start thinkin one thing jus because he hugs u or looks at you a certain way... jus keep talking to him and see where things end up
i don't really know what you should do sorry
if he is your friend maybe you wouldn't want to upset your friendship but if he isn't i would go for it
How do you prove to a guy that you are better than other girls?
I really like this guy but he has other girls who he likes. How do I prove that I am better than them?
Yesterday me and a friend of mine were talking to her brother about these things and he suggested us to dress nice, not slutty but slightly provocative, and to never make the first move. He said we should let the guy make the first move because if you make it he will most likely reject you instinctively.
You should try to stay around him more, but try not to look like you're falling for him. Guys like challenge.
Dress nice, put on a slight shadow of makeup, act clever and try to be yourself, even though in these cases it's hard to be one's self.
There are several ways to do this. One way is to try and look your BEST every day, like not dressing nicely (not slutty!), looking like you got a good night's sleep, and just to look healthy! Another is to (but not in a braggy-way) accentuate your talents (like sports, an instrument, academics, etc...). Something else guys LOVE is when you are passionate about a sport they love--I am personally a basketball junkie, but don't be FAKE because you'll get caught soon enough. But take an interest in what he does, what he thinks, and build a good relationship with him so he knows you're someone he can trust AND he likes, not just some slut that wants him just so she can say she has a boyfriend. Friendships are one of the solid rocks in a relationship (I had a friend whose relationship was in trouble because she felt like she and her boyfriend weren't really FRIENDS anymore, and they became really good friends because of that and now it's going great), so just be honest YOU, and be a true friend to him.
Hope I helped!
reading the first answer, im a 14/m and i dont really like needing to be challenged. i want to know shes interested. otherwise im afraid ill just get hurt from trying,
show intrest but dont chase after him.
if you love him, tell him that you love him good luck (:
Yesterday me and a friend of mine were talking to her brother about these things and he suggested us to dress nice, not slutty but slightly provocative, and to never make the first move. He said we should let the guy make the first move because if you make it he will most likely reject you instinctively.
You should try to stay around him more, but try not to look like you're falling for him. Guys like challenge.
Dress nice, put on a slight shadow of makeup, act clever and try to be yourself, even though in these cases it's hard to be one's self.
There are several ways to do this. One way is to try and look your BEST every day, like not dressing nicely (not slutty!), looking like you got a good night's sleep, and just to look healthy! Another is to (but not in a braggy-way) accentuate your talents (like sports, an instrument, academics, etc...). Something else guys LOVE is when you are passionate about a sport they love--I am personally a basketball junkie, but don't be FAKE because you'll get caught soon enough. But take an interest in what he does, what he thinks, and build a good relationship with him so he knows you're someone he can trust AND he likes, not just some slut that wants him just so she can say she has a boyfriend. Friendships are one of the solid rocks in a relationship (I had a friend whose relationship was in trouble because she felt like she and her boyfriend weren't really FRIENDS anymore, and they became really good friends because of that and now it's going great), so just be honest YOU, and be a true friend to him.
Hope I helped!
reading the first answer, im a 14/m and i dont really like needing to be challenged. i want to know shes interested. otherwise im afraid ill just get hurt from trying,
show intrest but dont chase after him.
if you love him, tell him that you love him good luck (:
Should I move on or wait for her?
ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (sarah) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day sarah and me hanged out pretty much all day and she seem fine. then tonight she texted me saying it was over cause she was confused and that she still loved me and stuff and she sorry for hurting me. an like a hour ago i was talking to sarah ex sister telling me that sarah and her ex was about date again. then i texted sarah asking if this was true and she said no and that she just confused right now.....should i move on or wait for her???
and if you was in my shoes what would you do??
ps we knew each other for year and sarah and her ex been dating 8months then broke up.its been month then we started to date and we only dated 1month and 3weeks
Its better if you move on. When someone act like that that means no.
and if you was in my shoes what would you do??
ps we knew each other for year and sarah and her ex been dating 8months then broke up.its been month then we started to date and we only dated 1month and 3weeks
Its better if you move on. When someone act like that that means no.
Is my girlfriend still a virign( theres a story behind it)?
ok so me and my girlfriend had sex and i popped her cherry but she had sex with her ex before me and i he didnt pop her cheery either he was to small or he missed or sumthin like that
anyway would she still be considered a virgin if she had sex and her cherry wasnt popped
No she was not a virgin. Being a virgin means not experiencing sex (intercourse) with another person.r
No she lost her virginity to her ex.
no. once u had sex then ur not a virgin anymore, whether he popped her cherry or not.
anyway would she still be considered a virgin if she had sex and her cherry wasnt popped
No she was not a virgin. Being a virgin means not experiencing sex (intercourse) with another person.r
No she lost her virginity to her ex.
no. once u had sex then ur not a virgin anymore, whether he popped her cherry or not.
Why guys are such a cowards?What should be my response to this mail?
I received a mail from a guy and this is what it said "i really hate myself for doing it this way and i wish i could ve done it personally.Its just to say that you are the most beautiful girl i ve seen in my life and i doubt my eyes could accept a girl to be more beautiful than you.We ve looked each other quite a few times and i believe you remember me and we'd nothing i common so that i just cant walk straight to you and say these and i dont want to give an impression that i m trying to hit on you.With the univ coming to an end i dont think i would see you again but i m sure i would miss your pony tail n dimples,the dresses you wear.Its sad that i never got to know about you so that i ve nothing to write about you except how u look and how good you are in studies and of course your mail id.Any way i wish you all the best for your future and keep smiling".Let me know u ve read it so that i can be sure i ve got the message across.
Hey Koel,
admit he has not got the b.*** to flatter u in front of u....
but u r equally bad by posting this query?...sometimes it's better for a girl to be bold and respond..you never know you might be missing out on a lifetime of opportunity here..shy guys can be good faithful/loyal poodles u know....
hey koel,dis guy is not a coward.Its jus dat he does not hav d courage 2 ask u face 2 face.may be he was scared u wud turn him down.He definitely likes u.If u do not want 2 hav a relationship with him,be frnds.If u think he is a good person,add him in ur chat list.He does not want 2 4get u,nw dat ur studies r cmg 2 an end.Al d best
If you like him, just send a single :)
If not, just say 'sorry...'
And he's not a coward. He told you at least, if you complain about guys being cowards, try asking them out then.
i dont get it
lol what did you do propose to him?
sum guys r like dat.. dey dnt hv guts 2 directly *** nd tlk.. nd knw wht sum evn dnt hv guts 2 snd a mail, nd say directly dat u r beautiful, i hv a liking 4 u!! atleast he hd dat much guts!! one thing is 4sure he likes u.. nw it is upto u hw u respond.. it seems u dnt knw dat guy.. first of all find out who dat guy is if u dnt knw him, nd if u r interested in him u cn give a positive rply saying dat i wd like 2 tlk 2 u or mke frndship vid u..
why r u so confused with this mail.What is there to be confused? May be some guy had seen u and liked u and he has told what he feels.The way he had expressed is ok to me.If u find out who the guy is,think whether he is suitable for u and accept it.Otherwise leave it.nothing to get confused.I don know if it is necessary to reply to the mail first of all.Don reply.Wel see what happens.If he wants u he may approach u again may be in the same way or in a different way.just leave it and get back to ur work.I don think its a cowardly work.Just a careful first step for what he wants to do.good luck
Hey Koel,
admit he has not got the b.*** to flatter u in front of u....
but u r equally bad by posting this query?...sometimes it's better for a girl to be bold and respond..you never know you might be missing out on a lifetime of opportunity here..shy guys can be good faithful/loyal poodles u know....
hey koel,dis guy is not a coward.Its jus dat he does not hav d courage 2 ask u face 2 face.may be he was scared u wud turn him down.He definitely likes u.If u do not want 2 hav a relationship with him,be frnds.If u think he is a good person,add him in ur chat list.He does not want 2 4get u,nw dat ur studies r cmg 2 an end.Al d best
If you like him, just send a single :)
If not, just say 'sorry...'
And he's not a coward. He told you at least, if you complain about guys being cowards, try asking them out then.
i dont get it
lol what did you do propose to him?
sum guys r like dat.. dey dnt hv guts 2 directly *** nd tlk.. nd knw wht sum evn dnt hv guts 2 snd a mail, nd say directly dat u r beautiful, i hv a liking 4 u!! atleast he hd dat much guts!! one thing is 4sure he likes u.. nw it is upto u hw u respond.. it seems u dnt knw dat guy.. first of all find out who dat guy is if u dnt knw him, nd if u r interested in him u cn give a positive rply saying dat i wd like 2 tlk 2 u or mke frndship vid u..
why r u so confused with this mail.What is there to be confused? May be some guy had seen u and liked u and he has told what he feels.The way he had expressed is ok to me.If u find out who the guy is,think whether he is suitable for u and accept it.Otherwise leave it.nothing to get confused.I don know if it is necessary to reply to the mail first of all.Don reply.Wel see what happens.If he wants u he may approach u again may be in the same way or in a different way.just leave it and get back to ur work.I don think its a cowardly work.Just a careful first step for what he wants to do.good luck
I need help my GF broke with me becuase her dad and mom dont let her date but i still want her with me?
we still talk every once in awhile i will see her at school next year im 15 and she is 14 she tries to call me and see me but her dad always has some ***** looking after her and making sure she isnt with me and i know it's only to protect her but isnt that a bit way to far?
Just chill, you're both still young and sneaking around isn't going to do any good for either of you. Unfortunately if something bad ever happens it will feel much worse knowing there were lies on top of that.
Try to have group gatherings. Always remember that a relationship based on lies and deceit will never go far - because no one will gain any trust (she may eventually not trust you, her parents certainly won't trust you and they'll trust her even less) Time will come and if you're smart show them you're a good kid who deserves their trust.
I had two friends that were in that same situation. Basically they had to break it because they got into some trouble together, but they still loved each other, so they still saw each other secretly outside of school and during school. if u want to meet outside of school u gotta be EXTRA sneaky and have a real good plan. Have her say she's going out jogging and meet her at the park or something,stuff like that.
Be careful though, after awhile their plan started falling apart because her parents kept finding out. Sooo either take the chance or leave it.
her getting in trouble and feeling bad about lying all the time, and not having a real relationship made them break up for good like a year later.
You must leave her alone, you both will grow up soon and will be able to be together, if you were meant to be together, you're just still a kid and have a lifetime before you, be patient take it slow, you'll see it will get here before you know it. Right now it's just puppy love .
Just chill, you're both still young and sneaking around isn't going to do any good for either of you. Unfortunately if something bad ever happens it will feel much worse knowing there were lies on top of that.
Try to have group gatherings. Always remember that a relationship based on lies and deceit will never go far - because no one will gain any trust (she may eventually not trust you, her parents certainly won't trust you and they'll trust her even less) Time will come and if you're smart show them you're a good kid who deserves their trust.
I had two friends that were in that same situation. Basically they had to break it because they got into some trouble together, but they still loved each other, so they still saw each other secretly outside of school and during school. if u want to meet outside of school u gotta be EXTRA sneaky and have a real good plan. Have her say she's going out jogging and meet her at the park or something,stuff like that.
Be careful though, after awhile their plan started falling apart because her parents kept finding out. Sooo either take the chance or leave it.
her getting in trouble and feeling bad about lying all the time, and not having a real relationship made them break up for good like a year later.
You must leave her alone, you both will grow up soon and will be able to be together, if you were meant to be together, you're just still a kid and have a lifetime before you, be patient take it slow, you'll see it will get here before you know it. Right now it's just puppy love .
He
so heres the deal.
i once dated this guy for about 3 months. He claimed he "loved" me from day one. Well being as i am....we got too close for me and i broke up with him. The dude went crazy! He would tell me things about how he tried to kill himself over me. We cant even be friends cuz its so bad! Hed stop being friends with every guy he even thought liked me! Well now its been almost a year since we went out and hes STILL not over it. Hes always saying stuff about how hes miserable and its all his fault i was perfect and blah blah...and im REALLY getting tired of it. What can i do to get this guy to realize...i guess....theres more fish in the sea???
You have nothing to do with this. This guy has a real mental issue (i'm not kidding) and he needs professional help. Set him up with a psychologist because this can go really far and get dangerous. He needs help.
i once dated this guy for about 3 months. He claimed he "loved" me from day one. Well being as i am....we got too close for me and i broke up with him. The dude went crazy! He would tell me things about how he tried to kill himself over me. We cant even be friends cuz its so bad! Hed stop being friends with every guy he even thought liked me! Well now its been almost a year since we went out and hes STILL not over it. Hes always saying stuff about how hes miserable and its all his fault i was perfect and blah blah...and im REALLY getting tired of it. What can i do to get this guy to realize...i guess....theres more fish in the sea???
You have nothing to do with this. This guy has a real mental issue (i'm not kidding) and he needs professional help. Set him up with a psychologist because this can go really far and get dangerous. He needs help.
Should I make a move on her?
Hello, I'm a junior in high school. I met this girl Freshman year, and we've been friends for two years. As I got to know her, I started to grow feelings for her. Then she had a boyfriend for a good year and 1/2. I waited patiently. When I found out she broke it off with this guy, it was the middle of August, right before school started. I decided to give her time and space and wait until school started to tell her how I felt. When I saw her again, she had a new boyfriend already. I was completely hurt and shocked. I decided to leave those two alone. A piece of me dies a little every time I see them. Up until last month, I barely talked to her. Then we started to find common ground and hang out again. I've been told "if you love her let her go." I've let her go for too long, and I really like her. Maybe I'm in love, I don't know. I really want to tell her how I feel and take a chance, but I'm afraid to lose her friendship forever. What do I do? Wait for God knows how long to let them break up? Or should I take a risk and tell her how I feel before I lose her forever?
HELP!
Tell her!
If you like her as much as you say you do, then you will be honest with yourself & herself and express how you feel.
You dont really have much to lose!
She might just feel the same way about you but never did anything about it because she didnt know how you felt.
i say quit being scared and just tell her....and if the results arent how u planned them you guys werent ment to b together!.....so good luck!
Ouch.
I really feel for you. Thing is, how do you make a move when she's taken? Depends on whether you want her soon-to-be-ex to hate you or not, and if you want to be the good guy or do a little bit of sneaky work.
If you want to keep your nose clean, then try to talk to her more often. On her birthday (or half-birthday...quarter-birthday?) bring her flowers or buy her one of those adorable little perfumes that girls love. On special occasions, even. Or you could announce that today is "start a new love life" day or something along those lines...maybe "say something random day" and tell her that you like her. See how she responds.
If you want to be sneaky, then you could try to get her STBX really really mad at you in the hallway, so that he blows up at you right when she's passing by. Make sure that the reason is really stupid so that it seems that he ex-plodes (good one, right?) over every little thing. This will kind of make her scared of him. Try to be protective of her. Or you could say something that would make him not like her very much. Does she flirt a lot? Any weird/creepy habits? This is a good time to evaluate if you really like her or not...
Be careful. Even though girls think of guys fighting over them to be romantic, it can still be a bit much. And if she goes through so many guys so quickly, you may want to think about whether or not you want to be cast aside and then immediately replaced.
Keep chivalry alive, though. Girls go CRAZY over that kind of stuff. Maybe walk with her and her bf, and hold her books or hold the door open for them.
If all else fails, go up next to the STBX and fart - really badly. Make it lok like he did it and she will be DISGUSTED at him, I assure you.
Good luck, all the best, and if all else fails...you know what to do. And remember that there are other people out there, maybe a girl who feels this way about you. But since you're a junior, get started ASAP.
if she still has a bf wait a little. but when she breaks up with him, just go for it. if you wait too long she's going to get another guy to make up for her other break up. she proably thinks that both of you are best friends. you should tell her how you feel about her, if she declines just stay friends. if you lose your friendship with her, when you guys grow up, she might would have wanted you to be her bf, but then she might remember that you guys aren't friends anymore. so..... just go for it and see how she reacts, hope i helpled. good luck!
HELP!
Tell her!
If you like her as much as you say you do, then you will be honest with yourself & herself and express how you feel.
You dont really have much to lose!
She might just feel the same way about you but never did anything about it because she didnt know how you felt.
i say quit being scared and just tell her....and if the results arent how u planned them you guys werent ment to b together!.....so good luck!
Ouch.
I really feel for you. Thing is, how do you make a move when she's taken? Depends on whether you want her soon-to-be-ex to hate you or not, and if you want to be the good guy or do a little bit of sneaky work.
If you want to keep your nose clean, then try to talk to her more often. On her birthday (or half-birthday...quarter-birthday?) bring her flowers or buy her one of those adorable little perfumes that girls love. On special occasions, even. Or you could announce that today is "start a new love life" day or something along those lines...maybe "say something random day" and tell her that you like her. See how she responds.
If you want to be sneaky, then you could try to get her STBX really really mad at you in the hallway, so that he blows up at you right when she's passing by. Make sure that the reason is really stupid so that it seems that he ex-plodes (good one, right?) over every little thing. This will kind of make her scared of him. Try to be protective of her. Or you could say something that would make him not like her very much. Does she flirt a lot? Any weird/creepy habits? This is a good time to evaluate if you really like her or not...
Be careful. Even though girls think of guys fighting over them to be romantic, it can still be a bit much. And if she goes through so many guys so quickly, you may want to think about whether or not you want to be cast aside and then immediately replaced.
Keep chivalry alive, though. Girls go CRAZY over that kind of stuff. Maybe walk with her and her bf, and hold her books or hold the door open for them.
If all else fails, go up next to the STBX and fart - really badly. Make it lok like he did it and she will be DISGUSTED at him, I assure you.
Good luck, all the best, and if all else fails...you know what to do. And remember that there are other people out there, maybe a girl who feels this way about you. But since you're a junior, get started ASAP.
if she still has a bf wait a little. but when she breaks up with him, just go for it. if you wait too long she's going to get another guy to make up for her other break up. she proably thinks that both of you are best friends. you should tell her how you feel about her, if she declines just stay friends. if you lose your friendship with her, when you guys grow up, she might would have wanted you to be her bf, but then she might remember that you guys aren't friends anymore. so..... just go for it and see how she reacts, hope i helpled. good luck!
Would you say im stuck on her?
SO this girl i really liked and i were talking for wuite a while. Her names Kristen
anyway we didnt end up goin up for a few stupid reason. I still like her even though i told her we shouldnt talk anymore. I now talk to this girl ashley who im just not quite as interested in. Kristen messages me on myspace on the low just seein how im doin and makin small talk. she always asks my lady friends how i am and stuff like tht. BUt kristen always thinks im only talking to ashley to get over her or because i "feel bad" for ashley or somethin. I do still like Kristen but i wanna forget about her and talk to ashley or whoever im feelin. BEING STUCK AINT COOL. but man shes all i think about sometimes. Kristen talks to a guy named Jessie who i act like im cool with so me and her can stay on friendly terms but i really hate how she just went to him right off of me.... what do u think shes doin. sorry for the length i just wanna see what everyone else thinks of this....
I think you should try talking to her about the predicament you are in. For one, maybe she does like you and you might be the only thing on her mind. So, all you have to do is talk to her. There's nothing else you can do. This making each other jealous thing isn't working too well, so just talk to her.
anyway we didnt end up goin up for a few stupid reason. I still like her even though i told her we shouldnt talk anymore. I now talk to this girl ashley who im just not quite as interested in. Kristen messages me on myspace on the low just seein how im doin and makin small talk. she always asks my lady friends how i am and stuff like tht. BUt kristen always thinks im only talking to ashley to get over her or because i "feel bad" for ashley or somethin. I do still like Kristen but i wanna forget about her and talk to ashley or whoever im feelin. BEING STUCK AINT COOL. but man shes all i think about sometimes. Kristen talks to a guy named Jessie who i act like im cool with so me and her can stay on friendly terms but i really hate how she just went to him right off of me.... what do u think shes doin. sorry for the length i just wanna see what everyone else thinks of this....
I think you should try talking to her about the predicament you are in. For one, maybe she does like you and you might be the only thing on her mind. So, all you have to do is talk to her. There's nothing else you can do. This making each other jealous thing isn't working too well, so just talk to her.
My boyfriend says he loves me but he tried to dump me?
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 10 months and i love him to death. he says he loves me but he tried to dump me about a week ago. he said he just couldn't be in a relationship right now. We've had sex and that makes it sooooo much harder. i don't know what to do!! we are still together right now but im just nervous and scared hes going to do it again. my friends are split in 2...half say i should just end it and the other half say to stick it out cuz they say he does love me and they know it. does anyone know why he tried to dump me and what i should do now without my heart breaking....again
Trust him, never underestimate a guy because thats why half of them act the way they do because that is what is expected of them.
My boyfriend and i have been dating for aroud a year and we are so in love but at one point, he was going through some things and he wanted to leave me, and it hurt and it has happened about three times but not for a long time, you just need to be strong for him and not lose your faith in him believe me it can work.
"does anyone know why he tried to dump me" ummm no honey, seeing as we don't know the guy, we wouldn't know why he tried to dump you, there could be a million reasons why.... go ask him.
Trust him, never underestimate a guy because thats why half of them act the way they do because that is what is expected of them.
My boyfriend and i have been dating for aroud a year and we are so in love but at one point, he was going through some things and he wanted to leave me, and it hurt and it has happened about three times but not for a long time, you just need to be strong for him and not lose your faith in him believe me it can work.
"does anyone know why he tried to dump me" ummm no honey, seeing as we don't know the guy, we wouldn't know why he tried to dump you, there could be a million reasons why.... go ask him.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Should i stop being friends with him? :(?
This guy became friends with me .. and i started liking him .. we became really good friends and it was really obvious he liked me .. so i decided to go up to him and tell him i have had a crush on him for a while now .. all he said was okay
and talked to my friend about it .. he said "he didnt feel the same way and was scared to talk to me" so i went up to him and told him i understood but he acted all confused and the next day got mad at my friend for telling me .. and asked what she told me
but ever since than (its only been a couple of weeks) he still acts the same and is flirting even more ... and i still really do like him ..
So is this guy playing me? or just being friendly?
OMG THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!
boys are weird, i think they can't make up
their minds, they are truly confusing.
i dont think he is playing you or being
friendly, i think he's just being a typical
boy, sadd i know.
andd you dont have to stop
being friends with him unless
you feel like he's being mean
or dont feel right about what he's doing.
and talked to my friend about it .. he said "he didnt feel the same way and was scared to talk to me" so i went up to him and told him i understood but he acted all confused and the next day got mad at my friend for telling me .. and asked what she told me
but ever since than (its only been a couple of weeks) he still acts the same and is flirting even more ... and i still really do like him ..
So is this guy playing me? or just being friendly?
OMG THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!
boys are weird, i think they can't make up
their minds, they are truly confusing.
i dont think he is playing you or being
friendly, i think he's just being a typical
boy, sadd i know.
andd you dont have to stop
being friends with him unless
you feel like he's being mean
or dont feel right about what he's doing.
What are you more likely to say.......?
after sex? have a good day? im sorry, we cant do this again? please dont tell my mom? what? 5 words or less please
Thanks, you were great:)
Your done already?*
how was that?!
lol
Thanks, you were great:)
Your done already?*
how was that?!
lol
Guys,do you like cooking a nice meal for your wife or girl now and then?
My wifes favorite meal is bbq baby back ribs and potato salad,got the grill going now !
yep, i do all the cooking since i am not working. she likes baby back ribs too, but she also likes pasta dishes so my job is fairly easy.
I do like to cook for women, although as with all things, some are appreciative, some not so much. Surprisingly the ones who can%26#039;t cook, are less grateful. Go figure.
My BF doesn%26#039;t really cook. he does know how to barbecue but doesn%26#039;t happen on it%26#039;s own for fun. your wife should read this and consider herself lucky.
Absolutely not.
I do about 80% of the cooking.
I hope you do, because I love to eat what you got cooking!
i love to cook .....too bad i dont get to dont know to many recipes haha
i hope he does ^ ^
yes
of course i would do why not..
%0D%0A
yep, i do all the cooking since i am not working. she likes baby back ribs too, but she also likes pasta dishes so my job is fairly easy.
I do like to cook for women, although as with all things, some are appreciative, some not so much. Surprisingly the ones who can%26#039;t cook, are less grateful. Go figure.
My BF doesn%26#039;t really cook. he does know how to barbecue but doesn%26#039;t happen on it%26#039;s own for fun. your wife should read this and consider herself lucky.
Absolutely not.
I do about 80% of the cooking.
I hope you do, because I love to eat what you got cooking!
i love to cook .....too bad i dont get to dont know to many recipes haha
i hope he does ^ ^
yes
of course i would do why not..
%0D%0A
What should i get my girlfriend for her birthday?
ive been going out with her for 4 days now, and next week is her birthday. im 17, and shes 15
could you give me some ideas, please and thank you!
That's sweet. You haven't been going out for too long, so don't give her something too big and/or expensive(:
Give her a teddy bear or her favorite flower... Take her to see a movie. Just something simple.
Hope it helps.
Girls LOVE shoes and clothes!
Trust me... I would know because I'm a girl.
If you really want to get her something special and NOT cheap, then go to the mall and get her some kind of jewlery. I.E. a ring, necklace, anklet, earrings, etc. Or a nice dress will do.
If you're on a tight budget, then get her a pair of nice shoes from nice stores like Payless, Wal-Mart, K-Mart, etc.
God luck finding the perfect gift!!!
Dont buy anything expensive or extravagant since you havent been dating long. You could buy her a bouquet of her favorite flower (have to find out what it is though) and a nice card. Girls love thoughtful. Give her a basket with popcorn, soda, candy and a movie rental gift card, then you guys can have a movie night too!
you haven't been with her for long at all, so something fancy and expensive would be out of the question unless you're loaded lol. but otherwise - you could ask her friends if they know anything she would like. tell them not to tell her if she doesn't know you're getting her something. maybe a shirt or CD - or you could make something yourself :]
hmmm nothing major since its only been four days! chocolates, a cd? i dunno! what is she into?
i wouldnt go for clothes or shoes unless you very very sure exactly what she'd like and sizes etc. if you were going down that route you'd be better off getting a voucher
Since 4 days isn't a serious relationship yet, you should just stay simple. Get her a big cuddly doll w/ flowers and balloons or take her to the classic dinner and a movie.
girls always love stuff animals so find out her favorite animal ! or you can get her flowers or a card or a bracelete soemthing along those lines and u will be fine
if she has an ipod, you can't go wrong with an itunes gift card. you don't want to get her anything major because she is so young and ya'll haven't been dating that long.
well if you know her favorite color and the size go to the hollister store and buy her a shirt only if she likes hollister clothing if not just get her a necklace with your name
a vibrator it's about time she get used to the toys these $luts use when they get older.
just make her a macaroni card haha
could you give me some ideas, please and thank you!
That's sweet. You haven't been going out for too long, so don't give her something too big and/or expensive(:
Give her a teddy bear or her favorite flower... Take her to see a movie. Just something simple.
Hope it helps.
Girls LOVE shoes and clothes!
Trust me... I would know because I'm a girl.
If you really want to get her something special and NOT cheap, then go to the mall and get her some kind of jewlery. I.E. a ring, necklace, anklet, earrings, etc. Or a nice dress will do.
If you're on a tight budget, then get her a pair of nice shoes from nice stores like Payless, Wal-Mart, K-Mart, etc.
God luck finding the perfect gift!!!
Dont buy anything expensive or extravagant since you havent been dating long. You could buy her a bouquet of her favorite flower (have to find out what it is though) and a nice card. Girls love thoughtful. Give her a basket with popcorn, soda, candy and a movie rental gift card, then you guys can have a movie night too!
you haven't been with her for long at all, so something fancy and expensive would be out of the question unless you're loaded lol. but otherwise - you could ask her friends if they know anything she would like. tell them not to tell her if she doesn't know you're getting her something. maybe a shirt or CD - or you could make something yourself :]
hmmm nothing major since its only been four days! chocolates, a cd? i dunno! what is she into?
i wouldnt go for clothes or shoes unless you very very sure exactly what she'd like and sizes etc. if you were going down that route you'd be better off getting a voucher
Since 4 days isn't a serious relationship yet, you should just stay simple. Get her a big cuddly doll w/ flowers and balloons or take her to the classic dinner and a movie.
girls always love stuff animals so find out her favorite animal ! or you can get her flowers or a card or a bracelete soemthing along those lines and u will be fine
if she has an ipod, you can't go wrong with an itunes gift card. you don't want to get her anything major because she is so young and ya'll haven't been dating that long.
well if you know her favorite color and the size go to the hollister store and buy her a shirt only if she likes hollister clothing if not just get her a necklace with your name
a vibrator it's about time she get used to the toys these $luts use when they get older.
just make her a macaroni card haha
If i ever get a girlfriend,i really want to care for her,well these 11 things help me to be with her?
1-give and have no expectations.
2-do whatever i can for her just to see her smile
3-listen more than talk
4-put her first before anybody
5-be there for her at all times
6-don't be needy
7-be an independent man,not a insecure little boy.
8-give her my(our) paychecks if we were to get married
9-spoil her
10-never complain about small stuff and be there for her always.
11-i do the yard work and fix things around the house,her only job is to do the shopping and pay the bills because she will have the money,not me.
will you marry me?
;)
that's a really good list and NOT easy to keep to all those things you listed. If guys did do all those things, people would be happy all the time and no one would split up.
Jesus Christ, why can't my boyfriend be like you?!
Just don't give too much to her or else she won't respect you.
Good Luck
Yep. You sound like the perfect boyfriend.
2-do whatever i can for her just to see her smile
3-listen more than talk
4-put her first before anybody
5-be there for her at all times
6-don't be needy
7-be an independent man,not a insecure little boy.
8-give her my(our) paychecks if we were to get married
9-spoil her
10-never complain about small stuff and be there for her always.
11-i do the yard work and fix things around the house,her only job is to do the shopping and pay the bills because she will have the money,not me.
will you marry me?
;)
that's a really good list and NOT easy to keep to all those things you listed. If guys did do all those things, people would be happy all the time and no one would split up.
Jesus Christ, why can't my boyfriend be like you?!
Just don't give too much to her or else she won't respect you.
Good Luck
Yep. You sound like the perfect boyfriend.
Has anyone left someone because they don
Has anyone left someone because they don't think they love them only to come back after time?
Has anyone left someone because they don't think they love them only to come back after time of not seeing them? My girlfriend broke up with me and I have decided to cut it cold turkey. I'm not texing or calling. She says that from one day to another we lost the spark. Is this possible and if you have left someone and they leave cold turkey do you ever want them back?
Yep, worst week of my life. Begged my boyfriend to leave me the hell alone, and after I got what I wanted, he was all I could think about. He took me back. (Yay!!)We're still together and that was almost two years ago. We've been happy together ever since. Every couple's different, so I don't know. But that was my experience. Hope it helps!!
just ask yourself what do you want? if you still love her or you do need have someone in your life right now and you just to been with her for fun! Maybe she doesn't have one in her life and she want you back!! good luck
nope never did that one/
Has anyone left someone because they don't think they love them only to come back after time of not seeing them? My girlfriend broke up with me and I have decided to cut it cold turkey. I'm not texing or calling. She says that from one day to another we lost the spark. Is this possible and if you have left someone and they leave cold turkey do you ever want them back?
Yep, worst week of my life. Begged my boyfriend to leave me the hell alone, and after I got what I wanted, he was all I could think about. He took me back. (Yay!!)We're still together and that was almost two years ago. We've been happy together ever since. Every couple's different, so I don't know. But that was my experience. Hope it helps!!
just ask yourself what do you want? if you still love her or you do need have someone in your life right now and you just to been with her for fun! Maybe she doesn't have one in her life and she want you back!! good luck
nope never did that one/
My friend is holding me back?
hes the situation. my friend went out with a girl. they broke up. now my friends ex is going out with another guy. i am friends with his ex and his ex's bf. but he holds me back from us hanging out with them or just the girl. my friend cannot move on. what do i do?
Tell him to get over it, sh!t happens, it doesn't sound like they were dating for to long so its not like he's in love with her and is heartbroken from the situation. Obviously he liked her enough to date her, he has to like her enough to chill with you and her together.
high school drama?
you should talk to him, if he really doesn't want you to hang out with them right now then maybe you should respect his wishes. What if you were in that situation? Or maybe you can figure out something. Either way you should talk to him about it.
Tell him if he was a realy friend he wouldnt stop you at all from doing what you want to do.
just leave them alone to settle out the sit. maybe it will cool down and hell let you hang with them again
Tell him to get over it, sh!t happens, it doesn't sound like they were dating for to long so its not like he's in love with her and is heartbroken from the situation. Obviously he liked her enough to date her, he has to like her enough to chill with you and her together.
high school drama?
you should talk to him, if he really doesn't want you to hang out with them right now then maybe you should respect his wishes. What if you were in that situation? Or maybe you can figure out something. Either way you should talk to him about it.
Tell him if he was a realy friend he wouldnt stop you at all from doing what you want to do.
just leave them alone to settle out the sit. maybe it will cool down and hell let you hang with them again
What should i get my b/f?
we have been together for a month and i didnt really give him anything..but i just want to give him something in general.
he's been working hard and a lot lately...so i just want to get him something thats nice and just make him feel good..
price range like 25-35$
personally, as a guy... the idea of a girl getting me a stuffed animal was freaking cute. my ex got me one and i still have it cause it meant a lot to me. but get something small.. nothing big lol.
also it is true: a way to a man's heart, is his stomach. so anything he likes: candy and stuff would work.
or if u really want to be cutesy and stuff how about u make him a homemade picnic, and either do it in ur backyard or at an actual park, but lay down a blanket, eat the food, and cuddle and stuff.
again my ex did that for me and it was one of the best things a girl has ever done for me :)
maybe you should give him a kiss candy sports jersey new t shirt a cheap watch or ring
But if you want to give him something realllllllly special you have two options give him a gift card to Hooters or dress up in a bikini before he come home and suprise him
go to abercrombie and fitch or AE and get him a necklace or sumtin
uh.. what does he like. music? cd. sports? some kind of sports gear. books? a new book
buy him a big basket or bag and fill it with his fav candies!!!
My boyfriend loved it!
bj
your cute :)
he's been working hard and a lot lately...so i just want to get him something thats nice and just make him feel good..
price range like 25-35$
personally, as a guy... the idea of a girl getting me a stuffed animal was freaking cute. my ex got me one and i still have it cause it meant a lot to me. but get something small.. nothing big lol.
also it is true: a way to a man's heart, is his stomach. so anything he likes: candy and stuff would work.
or if u really want to be cutesy and stuff how about u make him a homemade picnic, and either do it in ur backyard or at an actual park, but lay down a blanket, eat the food, and cuddle and stuff.
again my ex did that for me and it was one of the best things a girl has ever done for me :)
maybe you should give him a kiss candy sports jersey new t shirt a cheap watch or ring
But if you want to give him something realllllllly special you have two options give him a gift card to Hooters or dress up in a bikini before he come home and suprise him
go to abercrombie and fitch or AE and get him a necklace or sumtin
uh.. what does he like. music? cd. sports? some kind of sports gear. books? a new book
buy him a big basket or bag and fill it with his fav candies!!!
My boyfriend loved it!
bj
your cute :)
What should I write in the note I
She sits in front of me. I've been thinking, but can't decide on what I want it to say. I want it to come across friendly, and maybe slightly flirtatious, but nothing that would give my feelings away to quickly. So what should I say in the note? Just something to get a conversation going.
Please give examples, I stumped.
Also, how should I slip it to her?
And to add, I don't really know her that well, or personally I would say. We've flirted before, hugged, etc, but nothing too serious.
I guess you could call this 'taking the next step forward'.
something cute and flirty that'll make her laugh.
ALL girls like a guy who makes her laugh.
maybe something dumb like.
"stop reading this and focus in class!"
or
"i see you"
something small so that she'll remember it.
First thing, notes could get u in trouble and take time away from learning. Someone else could read it. I'd go with texting or im. Casually be talking for a little while. Then, be like. Hey you're cute and I have a crush on you. She'll OBVIOUSLY respond to that and then see where the conversation leads you. Also if you get nervous or embarrassed and she turns to look at u, she can't see your face or realize that you're nervous.
Good luck.
When I was i middle school in 8th grade, I was in band and put a note in a girls flute case; and I got her number, unfortunately didnt work out.
Um, yeah,write what you feel, what you think about her,maybe something funny.
I would put it something like how do you fancy a nice cup of tea and a slice of cream cake... and then make it into a paper aeroplane and throw it at her... normally does the job
well just say hey whats up babe
Please give examples, I stumped.
Also, how should I slip it to her?
And to add, I don't really know her that well, or personally I would say. We've flirted before, hugged, etc, but nothing too serious.
I guess you could call this 'taking the next step forward'.
something cute and flirty that'll make her laugh.
ALL girls like a guy who makes her laugh.
maybe something dumb like.
"stop reading this and focus in class!"
or
"i see you"
something small so that she'll remember it.
First thing, notes could get u in trouble and take time away from learning. Someone else could read it. I'd go with texting or im. Casually be talking for a little while. Then, be like. Hey you're cute and I have a crush on you. She'll OBVIOUSLY respond to that and then see where the conversation leads you. Also if you get nervous or embarrassed and she turns to look at u, she can't see your face or realize that you're nervous.
Good luck.
When I was i middle school in 8th grade, I was in band and put a note in a girls flute case; and I got her number, unfortunately didnt work out.
Um, yeah,write what you feel, what you think about her,maybe something funny.
I would put it something like how do you fancy a nice cup of tea and a slice of cream cake... and then make it into a paper aeroplane and throw it at her... normally does the job
well just say hey whats up babe
Too soon? What do yall think?
Okay so my man and I have been dating for a total of a month, we have been talking for a little over 8 months, and for the past 7 months we had been talking about getting together, but were both in horrible relationships...We never cheated on our ex's, but we always talked about one day I will be his, and how happy we would be..Well long story short,
he told me he has a surprise for me...he gave me hints, and its an engagement ring, he told me he was still unsure, but now hes saying he wants to, he was just afraid that I would think hes rushing it. I feel like this is what I want, but everyone is telling me its too soon?
We would be engaged for a year before getting married.
What do you think?
You are both on the right track if you really feel like you love each other. What would you feel like if you looked back and did not get married on a good opportunity. On the other hand if you both are doubting it then do not go for it. Doubt brings guilt and is not a good relationship.
It is sort of fast. You have to ask yourself what the rush is. Even if you're not engaged or married, you're still together, isn't that the important part.
And I really hate to say this and I don't want to come off as rude or mean but you both claim to not be cheating on your ex's but talking to another person for 7 months about wanting to be with each other is classified as emotional cheating which is still very hurtful as physical cheating.
Personally I think you need to give yourselves time to just date and be a normal couple. The way in which you got together in the first place isn't reality.....I just mean that just because you talked for 8 months doesn't mean you truly KNOW each other and it definitely doesn't count as time being in a real r'ship. I would hold off and date for a year and see how it goes and then if you both still feel the same and want to get married, THEN get engaged.
Respect what you feel now but also respect that you are not a robot and feelings change all of the time. You may love him dearly now and as much as its cliche to say: people change and situations change. The person you are now is not the person you will be 6 months from now. We are constantly growing and learning no matter what age we are. Sometimes we are so blinded by love that we dont want to think with our brains but rather with our hearts. Lead your life with your heart and your brain. Together they will make the best decision.
me and my husband got engaged 6 moths after dating.(We got married after 1 1/2 years later) we did live together tho. I think you guys should make sure your a good fit before getting married. Talking and being in a relationship are totally different. I really don't think the 8 months of talking really count. So really you would be getting engaged after only 1 month... so ask your self is one month of dating enough to know you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?
Tell him to bury the ring in his sock drawer for six months. Spend a lot of time together. Don't hold back in having tiffs and fights for those 6 months. Spend time overnight at each your living spaces, even entire weekends. If you still are friends and find yourselves in love, have him dig under his underwear for the ring.
Shorten the engagement period to 6 months and get married. :)
Well, if you love each other and it's good, try the engagement.
See what it would be like and if this is what you really want.
But remember that people lose their "fronts" and those antics come out that you may discover that you don't like.
Just watch out for any red flags. I hope that doesn't happen though.
If it's love and there aren't any doubts, go for it.
Too soon, especially since you said yourself that you were both in other relationships until you started dating. I had a friend who did exactly the same thing that you just said you are going to do, and was divorced within less than 1 year of being married.
Wow lucky girl congrats :) . It shouldn't be soon if both of you dreams about future together . Just go for it if you really want to be with him .
And as you said if he's in rush or not ? I think he's afraid of loosing his love again . If happens when they got hurt in the past .
To me, too soon. Get to know each other for a year and then get engaged. Being engaged can be manic. Planning dates, picking colors etc. Once the fun wears off you realize you are stuck with a toad. Know yourself well. Know him well. The fact that you are questioning it is a red flag that you think it is too soon.
You don't say how old either of you are, but it really doesn't matter. Use your brains, yeah, it's too soon. You have only known each other for 8 months, and haven't even been together for that long. I don't care how much you think you love each other, give it time.
Um, yeah it's to soon!
In this day and age, people are always jumping into marriages and not really thinking things through. And you know what they do next? They get divorced!
If you guys are really meant to be, your relationship will only get stronger with the wait and you'll know for sure that you'll last.
If you guys really love each other and you really want things to work out, you'll wait.
well i definetly think its way too soon but hey its your life do what u want! i got married when i was 18 years old and everyone told me the same thing lol my family didnt even come to city hall on our wedding day... but the reason i say its too soon is because i think the best way to get to know someone is by living with them if u can live with him and things are good then u know ur ready. good luck with ur decision!
sounds too soon for me, but people do it all the time. my only advice is to talk to a marriage counselor so that you can cover any and all issues dealing with marriage. you'd be surprised what issues they bring up. this will either make or break your relationship but is very necessary!
Even though you both are in bad relationships and you care about eachother deeply, maybe you should both get out of your relationships and star dating completely. There is really no rush, but if you think you guys can survive...then go for it. Good luck!
way way to soon me and my man have been dating for about a year and 8 months and i still think that is to soon i think if u must just have a long engagement and move in together to really see if he is the one
i would move in for him for at least a year, and see how you handle being around him 24/7 then i would plan on getting engaged after that, if you think you need time to e sure then i would just postpone a wedding for a few more months
TOO SOON! Stop right there! You should not even think about getting married untill the two year mark rolls around! I would say date the person for at least 5 years before tieing the knot! The reason everyone is telling you it is too soon... is because it is!
I have been with a guy for a year or so but im underage i have to wait 3 years to be with him long story short EVERYONE THINKS HE IS A MISTAKE i love him and thats all that matter to me
If you have no doubts, why do you want other`s opinions - that suggests an element of doubt.
And if you intend to be engaged for a year that is plenty of time to be doubly sure.
If both of you feel ready it's no problem. Some people wait 8 years before they get engaged and marry only to divorce a year later. There really is no recipe. If both of you want it, it's not too soon. Good luck.
i think you should be together for a few more months, then accept it, but still wait a year or longer to get married. things get weird when you stop being just friends and are more. waiting is the best option.
i think that you should date A LITTLE more, JUST IN CASE, and then stick with your 1 year engagmet. my parents dated for three years, then were engaged for 2. they are happily married.
no matter what someone tells you , or what you believe , a month ... is a very short period of time , you didn't even have time to get into a fight or argument yet ...
girl you're crazy , listen to your friends.
Getting engaged is not getting married. You are going to be engaged for a year so, I think you are okay.
Think for while and decide, according to me its to early to get in...I suggest you have a thought and then give ur answer.......
Go for it. Sounds pretty romantic to me. Live in the moment and see how you feel as the wedding day approaches.
Just take it slow and you will be fine.
Life is fleeting. If you know you love him go ahead. Don't live with what if's.
why the rush anyways
well, I would say yes and see how the engagement goes. If after a year you are still really happy, then why not!
he told me he has a surprise for me...he gave me hints, and its an engagement ring, he told me he was still unsure, but now hes saying he wants to, he was just afraid that I would think hes rushing it. I feel like this is what I want, but everyone is telling me its too soon?
We would be engaged for a year before getting married.
What do you think?
You are both on the right track if you really feel like you love each other. What would you feel like if you looked back and did not get married on a good opportunity. On the other hand if you both are doubting it then do not go for it. Doubt brings guilt and is not a good relationship.
It is sort of fast. You have to ask yourself what the rush is. Even if you're not engaged or married, you're still together, isn't that the important part.
And I really hate to say this and I don't want to come off as rude or mean but you both claim to not be cheating on your ex's but talking to another person for 7 months about wanting to be with each other is classified as emotional cheating which is still very hurtful as physical cheating.
Personally I think you need to give yourselves time to just date and be a normal couple. The way in which you got together in the first place isn't reality.....I just mean that just because you talked for 8 months doesn't mean you truly KNOW each other and it definitely doesn't count as time being in a real r'ship. I would hold off and date for a year and see how it goes and then if you both still feel the same and want to get married, THEN get engaged.
Respect what you feel now but also respect that you are not a robot and feelings change all of the time. You may love him dearly now and as much as its cliche to say: people change and situations change. The person you are now is not the person you will be 6 months from now. We are constantly growing and learning no matter what age we are. Sometimes we are so blinded by love that we dont want to think with our brains but rather with our hearts. Lead your life with your heart and your brain. Together they will make the best decision.
me and my husband got engaged 6 moths after dating.(We got married after 1 1/2 years later) we did live together tho. I think you guys should make sure your a good fit before getting married. Talking and being in a relationship are totally different. I really don't think the 8 months of talking really count. So really you would be getting engaged after only 1 month... so ask your self is one month of dating enough to know you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?
Tell him to bury the ring in his sock drawer for six months. Spend a lot of time together. Don't hold back in having tiffs and fights for those 6 months. Spend time overnight at each your living spaces, even entire weekends. If you still are friends and find yourselves in love, have him dig under his underwear for the ring.
Shorten the engagement period to 6 months and get married. :)
Well, if you love each other and it's good, try the engagement.
See what it would be like and if this is what you really want.
But remember that people lose their "fronts" and those antics come out that you may discover that you don't like.
Just watch out for any red flags. I hope that doesn't happen though.
If it's love and there aren't any doubts, go for it.
Too soon, especially since you said yourself that you were both in other relationships until you started dating. I had a friend who did exactly the same thing that you just said you are going to do, and was divorced within less than 1 year of being married.
Wow lucky girl congrats :) . It shouldn't be soon if both of you dreams about future together . Just go for it if you really want to be with him .
And as you said if he's in rush or not ? I think he's afraid of loosing his love again . If happens when they got hurt in the past .
To me, too soon. Get to know each other for a year and then get engaged. Being engaged can be manic. Planning dates, picking colors etc. Once the fun wears off you realize you are stuck with a toad. Know yourself well. Know him well. The fact that you are questioning it is a red flag that you think it is too soon.
You don't say how old either of you are, but it really doesn't matter. Use your brains, yeah, it's too soon. You have only known each other for 8 months, and haven't even been together for that long. I don't care how much you think you love each other, give it time.
Um, yeah it's to soon!
In this day and age, people are always jumping into marriages and not really thinking things through. And you know what they do next? They get divorced!
If you guys are really meant to be, your relationship will only get stronger with the wait and you'll know for sure that you'll last.
If you guys really love each other and you really want things to work out, you'll wait.
well i definetly think its way too soon but hey its your life do what u want! i got married when i was 18 years old and everyone told me the same thing lol my family didnt even come to city hall on our wedding day... but the reason i say its too soon is because i think the best way to get to know someone is by living with them if u can live with him and things are good then u know ur ready. good luck with ur decision!
sounds too soon for me, but people do it all the time. my only advice is to talk to a marriage counselor so that you can cover any and all issues dealing with marriage. you'd be surprised what issues they bring up. this will either make or break your relationship but is very necessary!
Even though you both are in bad relationships and you care about eachother deeply, maybe you should both get out of your relationships and star dating completely. There is really no rush, but if you think you guys can survive...then go for it. Good luck!
way way to soon me and my man have been dating for about a year and 8 months and i still think that is to soon i think if u must just have a long engagement and move in together to really see if he is the one
i would move in for him for at least a year, and see how you handle being around him 24/7 then i would plan on getting engaged after that, if you think you need time to e sure then i would just postpone a wedding for a few more months
TOO SOON! Stop right there! You should not even think about getting married untill the two year mark rolls around! I would say date the person for at least 5 years before tieing the knot! The reason everyone is telling you it is too soon... is because it is!
I have been with a guy for a year or so but im underage i have to wait 3 years to be with him long story short EVERYONE THINKS HE IS A MISTAKE i love him and thats all that matter to me
If you have no doubts, why do you want other`s opinions - that suggests an element of doubt.
And if you intend to be engaged for a year that is plenty of time to be doubly sure.
If both of you feel ready it's no problem. Some people wait 8 years before they get engaged and marry only to divorce a year later. There really is no recipe. If both of you want it, it's not too soon. Good luck.
i think you should be together for a few more months, then accept it, but still wait a year or longer to get married. things get weird when you stop being just friends and are more. waiting is the best option.
i think that you should date A LITTLE more, JUST IN CASE, and then stick with your 1 year engagmet. my parents dated for three years, then were engaged for 2. they are happily married.
no matter what someone tells you , or what you believe , a month ... is a very short period of time , you didn't even have time to get into a fight or argument yet ...
girl you're crazy , listen to your friends.
Getting engaged is not getting married. You are going to be engaged for a year so, I think you are okay.
Think for while and decide, according to me its to early to get in...I suggest you have a thought and then give ur answer.......
Go for it. Sounds pretty romantic to me. Live in the moment and see how you feel as the wedding day approaches.
Just take it slow and you will be fine.
Life is fleeting. If you know you love him go ahead. Don't live with what if's.
why the rush anyways
well, I would say yes and see how the engagement goes. If after a year you are still really happy, then why not!
Creeper Expert? I need LOADS of answers!?
Me and my friends are having a creeper day just for fun. We are gonna go out and act like crazy creepers! Ha ha ha! Well we are running out of ideas and I want to know what you think. What are some funny, creeper like, safe things that we won't get in trouble for. Please no following people. Be creative! Use your imagination! 10 points for the one that meets all these requirements!
Go into some random store and stare at a person for a while with a creepy smile on....then as your leaving ask them if they were the person you met at *insert name of place* and keep persisting....this will probably embarrass them and make them creeped out
Come to my house naked. I'll show you a creeper.
Go into some random store and stare at a person for a while with a creepy smile on....then as your leaving ask them if they were the person you met at *insert name of place* and keep persisting....this will probably embarrass them and make them creeped out
Come to my house naked. I'll show you a creeper.
MARRIED MEN: What is one thing you hate doing with your wife?
I hate when my wife takes me clothes shopping. Half the time, I'm sitting there watching her try on clothes. It's not the most fun in the world. Is there anything you married men hate doing with your wife?
I hate shopping with my wife too she will tour the same rack 10 times find something then put it back then go back and get it again,it sucks. So do as I do take her shoping in the sporting good and to Pro Bass a few times. Then she wont be so eager for you to go with her.Shopping is the only thing I dislike to do with my wife every thing else I can do.
I love shopping with my wife, here we can dress them up in anything we want. If we want thei wardrobe to be more exciting or revealing we have the power. I dont want to hear you complain when she puts on those old boring clothes that you hate in a couple years.
But i really cant think of anything i do not enjoy doing with my wife, I married her because i enjoy her company and doing things with her, she is my best friend.
I hate shopping with my wife too she will tour the same rack 10 times find something then put it back then go back and get it again,it sucks. So do as I do take her shoping in the sporting good and to Pro Bass a few times. Then she wont be so eager for you to go with her.Shopping is the only thing I dislike to do with my wife every thing else I can do.
I love shopping with my wife, here we can dress them up in anything we want. If we want thei wardrobe to be more exciting or revealing we have the power. I dont want to hear you complain when she puts on those old boring clothes that you hate in a couple years.
But i really cant think of anything i do not enjoy doing with my wife, I married her because i enjoy her company and doing things with her, she is my best friend.
Was he flirting with me?
I used to have a HUGE crush on the ice cream man who's 25, but he's just too cute! I'm 14 and so, we were like, texting but I have a boyfriend and he kept texting smiley faces and then I said "ur 2 cute" and he said "no ur are" and then I had to do homework so I said, "i have hw. boo... c ya xoxo" and he said, "Ok bye sweetie" and that's how it ended.
And from previous texts, he noted he has a girlfriend.
....
if i was you, i'd be really creeped out.
But i've noticed you've got a thing for "Paul"
hahahah.
well good luck for whatever you decide.
Hmm, well, he might just be friendly.
I've got a friend who's a bit younger than me who does that.
But, he's 25 honey, stay away, you could get him (or he'll get himself) into BIG trouble.
dot dot dot
JK! maybe he is, maybe he isn't,i know i m not much help. He's a cheater!!! or maybe he likes like a little sister?
Edit: don't go out old dudes, thats creepy!!!
well you should be pleaased with yourself for even having his phone number..when i was 14 wouldn't have had confidence..he must like you coz most 25 yr prob not even text back
Yeah Thats Kinda called flirting. Id stay away from 25 year old Ice cream Men who flirt with 14 year old girls.
He should not be flirting with you if you're 14. Sounds sketchy to me.
No question about it, that's what he was doing
take care
dave
Eww pedophile!! and yes it is flirting. Ewwww!!!!
ewww i wouldd stayyyy awayyyyyy
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh unnnnnnnnnnnn
lmao. well yes he was.... but u initiated it! How would u feel if ur bf flirted w/ other girls!
And from previous texts, he noted he has a girlfriend.
....
if i was you, i'd be really creeped out.
But i've noticed you've got a thing for "Paul"
hahahah.
well good luck for whatever you decide.
Hmm, well, he might just be friendly.
I've got a friend who's a bit younger than me who does that.
But, he's 25 honey, stay away, you could get him (or he'll get himself) into BIG trouble.
dot dot dot
JK! maybe he is, maybe he isn't,i know i m not much help. He's a cheater!!! or maybe he likes like a little sister?
Edit: don't go out old dudes, thats creepy!!!
well you should be pleaased with yourself for even having his phone number..when i was 14 wouldn't have had confidence..he must like you coz most 25 yr prob not even text back
Yeah Thats Kinda called flirting. Id stay away from 25 year old Ice cream Men who flirt with 14 year old girls.
He should not be flirting with you if you're 14. Sounds sketchy to me.
No question about it, that's what he was doing
take care
dave
Eww pedophile!! and yes it is flirting. Ewwww!!!!
ewww i wouldd stayyyy awayyyyyy
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh unnnnnnnnnnnn
lmao. well yes he was.... but u initiated it! How would u feel if ur bf flirted w/ other girls!
This always happens to me?
i bought these panasonic earbuds for 1 dollar today. this guy said it worked. i tried them after skool and they dont work at all.
i threw them out. pos. i hate messy ppl like that. f... slob
i have him on myspace. i think he is at this store right now should i not get my money back
You only paid $1 for them so get over it.
it just a dollar............so next be ready and test out the earphones in the store before purchasin it.............
if you only paid a dollar for them i don't think it's worth it
i threw them out. pos. i hate messy ppl like that. f... slob
i have him on myspace. i think he is at this store right now should i not get my money back
You only paid $1 for them so get over it.
it just a dollar............so next be ready and test out the earphones in the store before purchasin it.............
if you only paid a dollar for them i don't think it's worth it
The demise of the female dating life...?
A lot of single women 30 always whine and complain that they can never find a good guy to date. Why is that exactly? Well, it's because all your prospective suitors are chasing the younger tail.
So what do you ladies do? You whine and ***** about it mostly. "Wahh, men my age won't date me. Stupid pedophiles. Only interested in little girls, I say!"
Well, hahaha, my lovely ladies, the joke is on you. Who has perpetuated this younger female/older male dating culture? Why... it was none other than yourselves. From your late teens and early twenties you've always insisted on dating older men.
I can only sit back and laugh as your ironic fate befalls you.
I've seen you post this at "Gender - Women Studies." I guess that wasn't enough. Just because you can't find anyone doesn't mean you have to spew your vomit here. Get a life. Not all women complain and you shouldn't be quick to put us all in one category.
Guys want a chic who'd bio clock isn't ticking so loud it drowns out everything else.
So what do you ladies do? You whine and ***** about it mostly. "Wahh, men my age won't date me. Stupid pedophiles. Only interested in little girls, I say!"
Well, hahaha, my lovely ladies, the joke is on you. Who has perpetuated this younger female/older male dating culture? Why... it was none other than yourselves. From your late teens and early twenties you've always insisted on dating older men.
I can only sit back and laugh as your ironic fate befalls you.
I've seen you post this at "Gender - Women Studies." I guess that wasn't enough. Just because you can't find anyone doesn't mean you have to spew your vomit here. Get a life. Not all women complain and you shouldn't be quick to put us all in one category.
Guys want a chic who'd bio clock isn't ticking so loud it drowns out everything else.
my boyfriend he is 16 years old(am 15)am short and he is tall
i love him but i don't feel good when i walk with him cuz he is tall and am short"i feel like people are laugh at us.and today he said to me why your short and i said to him cuz my dad is short and my mom is tall that's why!! but i feel bad about that" cuz i think his friend are saying to him you tall and your girl is short that's how i feel""
what do you think about what i say?
what i half to do to forget about all this?
I honestly don't think you should even worry about this again unless he starts really emotionally abusing you about it. his friends may just be teasing him because they're jealous he has you - or they're just totally playing around like all guy friends do. I'm between 4'11 and 5 foot and won't grow anymore and my boyfriend is 6'2 lol, so you're not the only one :] his friends did the same thing to him when we first started dating. I rarely see couples that have a perfect height comparison, so don't sweat over it. you can't help your height as much as he can't help his.
you are way too dramatic........
guys prefer girls shorter than them, you know when you got a problem???
When you 5'10 like me and every guy is as tall or shorter than you that hurts their ego......
Guys actually go for shorter girls just so you know. When I wear high heels im sometimes 3in or 4 in taller than the guy im with. That makes it hard to keep a guy. He's just joking with you. If he didn tlike you he wouldnt be with you.......
i find short females more attractive but that's just me :)
i love him but i don't feel good when i walk with him cuz he is tall and am short"i feel like people are laugh at us.and today he said to me why your short and i said to him cuz my dad is short and my mom is tall that's why!! but i feel bad about that" cuz i think his friend are saying to him you tall and your girl is short that's how i feel""
what do you think about what i say?
what i half to do to forget about all this?
I honestly don't think you should even worry about this again unless he starts really emotionally abusing you about it. his friends may just be teasing him because they're jealous he has you - or they're just totally playing around like all guy friends do. I'm between 4'11 and 5 foot and won't grow anymore and my boyfriend is 6'2 lol, so you're not the only one :] his friends did the same thing to him when we first started dating. I rarely see couples that have a perfect height comparison, so don't sweat over it. you can't help your height as much as he can't help his.
you are way too dramatic........
guys prefer girls shorter than them, you know when you got a problem???
When you 5'10 like me and every guy is as tall or shorter than you that hurts their ego......
Guys actually go for shorter girls just so you know. When I wear high heels im sometimes 3in or 4 in taller than the guy im with. That makes it hard to keep a guy. He's just joking with you. If he didn tlike you he wouldnt be with you.......
i find short females more attractive but that's just me :)
How can i get over my hatred of women?
Ok i know i have a problem with women over the years due to not getting dates when asking them out, or hanging out with women when i ask to just lets go to the movies, so now i am just so fed up with them not giving me a chance and dont careless for them.. Anyways, last week i was with a friend who acrouse is a jerk to his girlfriend, i was driving them home from school and they started arguing in the back seat to the point when he started to hit her in the face a couple of times and broke her nose it really didnt faze me as i didnt even turn around to help her as she cried, because i just didnt give a damn about women at the time. And there was another time where i was walking home from the fun park and saw a guy, which i know i would beat him to death with me being 6'2 200 pounds and him very small hitting and kicking his girlfriend because she locked the key in the car. He basically beat her into the ground as i just passed by and look and kept on walking with saying anything because i just didnt care about saving her and watching this Rihanna crap i guess it is true that women like jerks, so should i continue being a jerk?
I think you should open your heart and not hold back real deep feelings for women. The ones that are nice, kind, caring, loving.
I guess the questions you have to ask yourself are:
Do you want a family one day? Do you want to be a dad and having a loving wife?
If none of those mean anything to you then that's fine too. Yet, you should still treat women with respect. The ones that don't deserve it leave them alone and say Screw you but the ones that actual have a heart and mind, those are the ones you need to look for.
I hope you change your outlook on life or else it will not be easy for you. Good luck with everything hon.
Oh lord no! i'm sorry but thats just horrible. i understand that you have some dislike towards women, but we're all not that bad and we definitely don't deserve to be beaten. and i can tell you this, women do NOT like jerks! there's a difference btw bad boys and just flat out jerks. please change your attitude towards women and show some human compassion
Yah, eventually you'll pick up a women with no self esteem and who continues to depend on the wrong man for support in her life.
therapy...
I think you should open your heart and not hold back real deep feelings for women. The ones that are nice, kind, caring, loving.
I guess the questions you have to ask yourself are:
Do you want a family one day? Do you want to be a dad and having a loving wife?
If none of those mean anything to you then that's fine too. Yet, you should still treat women with respect. The ones that don't deserve it leave them alone and say Screw you but the ones that actual have a heart and mind, those are the ones you need to look for.
I hope you change your outlook on life or else it will not be easy for you. Good luck with everything hon.
Oh lord no! i'm sorry but thats just horrible. i understand that you have some dislike towards women, but we're all not that bad and we definitely don't deserve to be beaten. and i can tell you this, women do NOT like jerks! there's a difference btw bad boys and just flat out jerks. please change your attitude towards women and show some human compassion
Yah, eventually you'll pick up a women with no self esteem and who continues to depend on the wrong man for support in her life.
therapy...
Tell me what you think?
a poem to make the ladies tear a little.
Slow motion
When first I saw you,
you moved in slow motion
Through my eyes, body,
and heart flowed emotion.
I always thought we would
never speak, but
My interest in you
has almost peaked.
Through the years,
we have made wonderful strides
Although it's almost time
for you to say good bye, but
Don't think of this as the end
In time, you will lend
me your hand
So you can walk down the
aisle with your tears
rushing like oceans
Then I can once again see
you walking in slow motion.
David Jones
Copyright 2009 David Jones
Awwwww.
that made me cry.
i love it. i'm going to use that poem.
thats a very sweet poem, sounds like something for a high school sweetheart couple...
Very cute
that's nice...
:) Aw.
awww.
Slow motion
When first I saw you,
you moved in slow motion
Through my eyes, body,
and heart flowed emotion.
I always thought we would
never speak, but
My interest in you
has almost peaked.
Through the years,
we have made wonderful strides
Although it's almost time
for you to say good bye, but
Don't think of this as the end
In time, you will lend
me your hand
So you can walk down the
aisle with your tears
rushing like oceans
Then I can once again see
you walking in slow motion.
David Jones
Copyright 2009 David Jones
Awwwww.
that made me cry.
i love it. i'm going to use that poem.
thats a very sweet poem, sounds like something for a high school sweetheart couple...
Very cute
that's nice...
:) Aw.
awww.
How to win someone over?
If a guy (or girl) you are dating seriously and exclusively says they don't want a g/f only because they haven't had one in years and they gave up because everyone they ever liked never liked them back, how does one with them over? Is there ways to change someone's mind? I really like my guy, he says he doesn't want a g/f but he says I'm basically his g/f, and this guy has stole my heart. He also says he loves me... how do I show him I'm his? Is having the g/f b/f label important to any of you? It is somewhat to me because it makes it official, but it's not so important to make such a huge deal about it... anyways, help? Thanks!
Honestly, when he says that "everyone they ever liked never liked them back" make sure he knows that you are not everyone. Tell him that you know he's been hurt before but you will be better than that. It depends on how long you guys have been together, if it hasn't been awhile than maybe you just need to give him a little more time but if it has been a while tell him that. Tell him that you haven't hurt him yet and never plan on it. You just have to make sure that he knows you love him back and want nothing more than to know that you guys are each others and no one else's. Just try not to push him or this will probably turn into a fight which of course you do not want. Listen to what he has to say about it but make sure you let him know how you feel about him and being in a relationship. If he really loves you he'll come around eventually, I know it's hard but try to be a little patient. Good things really do come to those who wait but definitely talk to him about it. Good luck!
All you can really do is be yourself, and open up to him. Tell him that you like him. Hang out and get to know each other some more. Eventually, he will figure out, that you are being "for real" and aren't going to just run off when he says that he really wants to be with you.
I know it isn't much, but that usually does it, you just have to show him that your really into him, and that your not just going to leave him.
Be honest and talk to him about it, golden rule, never fails!
You sound like a child. Go play barbies first and I'll get back to you
I personally think that when someone loves you or really likes you, no convincing on your part needs to be done. They will fall for you and be committed to only you IF they WANTED to do that. It seems to me that your guy is making an excuse for not being exclusive because when he says you are "basically his girlfriend" but still will not take that extra step, that to me says that he is not willing to give up his single rights. As long as this goes on, he will continue to have you and be able to do whatever he wants as well, because truth be told, he's is not your boyfriend. He and you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, and with whoever you want to do it with! As far as a label being important, well, that's solely up to you! You can wait and take into consideration that you two are really close and you want to stick around and see where the "relationship" goes without a title. Or you can be upfront with him and tell him that you do understand that he doesn't want a relationship right now, but, love is very important to you and when two people love each other, that's serious and should be treated as such. Something has to give though!
Honestly, when he says that "everyone they ever liked never liked them back" make sure he knows that you are not everyone. Tell him that you know he's been hurt before but you will be better than that. It depends on how long you guys have been together, if it hasn't been awhile than maybe you just need to give him a little more time but if it has been a while tell him that. Tell him that you haven't hurt him yet and never plan on it. You just have to make sure that he knows you love him back and want nothing more than to know that you guys are each others and no one else's. Just try not to push him or this will probably turn into a fight which of course you do not want. Listen to what he has to say about it but make sure you let him know how you feel about him and being in a relationship. If he really loves you he'll come around eventually, I know it's hard but try to be a little patient. Good things really do come to those who wait but definitely talk to him about it. Good luck!
All you can really do is be yourself, and open up to him. Tell him that you like him. Hang out and get to know each other some more. Eventually, he will figure out, that you are being "for real" and aren't going to just run off when he says that he really wants to be with you.
I know it isn't much, but that usually does it, you just have to show him that your really into him, and that your not just going to leave him.
Be honest and talk to him about it, golden rule, never fails!
You sound like a child. Go play barbies first and I'll get back to you
I personally think that when someone loves you or really likes you, no convincing on your part needs to be done. They will fall for you and be committed to only you IF they WANTED to do that. It seems to me that your guy is making an excuse for not being exclusive because when he says you are "basically his girlfriend" but still will not take that extra step, that to me says that he is not willing to give up his single rights. As long as this goes on, he will continue to have you and be able to do whatever he wants as well, because truth be told, he's is not your boyfriend. He and you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, and with whoever you want to do it with! As far as a label being important, well, that's solely up to you! You can wait and take into consideration that you two are really close and you want to stick around and see where the "relationship" goes without a title. Or you can be upfront with him and tell him that you do understand that he doesn't want a relationship right now, but, love is very important to you and when two people love each other, that's serious and should be treated as such. Something has to give though!
The way to a man
Does this statement pose any truth? Just curious!
i think so. guys like to know that their woman can take care of them, so cooking is a nice romantic gesture :)
Any truth? i think some. being a good cook is a positive. it is something that may help sway an opinion about you. more like a "whatever" to a "thats good to know". i don't see any guy FALLING for a girl BECAUSE she can cook, but every man does like that ability in a woman. i see being a good cook more as a way for you to get brownie points, but its by far not the most important thing about a wife
nope the way to most pretty boys, city boys, or them rich boy's hearts ain't through their stomach it's a little farther south. that's all they're looking for. however the way to a real mans heart ain't through anything like that it's through love and you caring.
I once dated a girl that told me she doesn't cook.
Never called her again.
Here is a hint, guys like to eat and not pay for meals all the time.
In part.
The way through a man's heart is through his penis and stomach
Meaning, if you provide sex and food, he'll love you forever.
You cook me a Ribeye with Montreal steak seasoning and a baked potato I will love you for life.
I'd even do the dishes.
So yes. It's true!
Better to go a little higher then under the rib cage. Make sure the knife is sharp.
absolutely!
I think it is. If you cook well and he has a good home cooked meal he will appreciate you more.
I don't cook much and never had any problem. I wonder what I did right.
No...its thru his zipper!
Well I'm no man but that sure is the way to mine.
i think so. guys like to know that their woman can take care of them, so cooking is a nice romantic gesture :)
Any truth? i think some. being a good cook is a positive. it is something that may help sway an opinion about you. more like a "whatever" to a "thats good to know". i don't see any guy FALLING for a girl BECAUSE she can cook, but every man does like that ability in a woman. i see being a good cook more as a way for you to get brownie points, but its by far not the most important thing about a wife
nope the way to most pretty boys, city boys, or them rich boy's hearts ain't through their stomach it's a little farther south. that's all they're looking for. however the way to a real mans heart ain't through anything like that it's through love and you caring.
I once dated a girl that told me she doesn't cook.
Never called her again.
Here is a hint, guys like to eat and not pay for meals all the time.
In part.
The way through a man's heart is through his penis and stomach
Meaning, if you provide sex and food, he'll love you forever.
You cook me a Ribeye with Montreal steak seasoning and a baked potato I will love you for life.
I'd even do the dishes.
So yes. It's true!
Better to go a little higher then under the rib cage. Make sure the knife is sharp.
absolutely!
I think it is. If you cook well and he has a good home cooked meal he will appreciate you more.
I don't cook much and never had any problem. I wonder what I did right.
No...its thru his zipper!
Well I'm no man but that sure is the way to mine.
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