Question about having sex?

We aren%26#039;t suppose to base a relationship on looks but personality...





How did sex become apart of personality? And when you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life, there%26#039;s something wrong or the person is cheating on you. And if they don%26#039;t want sex, they must be g.a.y. Explain.



This wouldn%26#039;t be an issue if people waited for marriage to have sex. Sex is very precious and sacred, but it%26#039;s a serious sin outside of marriage. WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!




I would have to say that sex became a part of personality because most men tend to date a woman based on whether or not she puts out. Re: cheating? Again, because most men date women based on whether or not they will give him sex, a woman will automatically think that her man is having an affair if he is not giving her enough attention emotionally and physically. You can thank the men who date women based on whether or not they will put out for the g.a.y thing as well. When women meet men, it is already in their heads that he wants sex above anything else. So when they hear a man say they don%26#039;t want to be with them for sex, they think he must be gay and move on.




A relationship is based on a number of things...attraction, compatible personalities, compatible goals and ambitions, satisfying intimate life (including sex), etc.





Sex isn%26#039;t part of personality, but it is part of most romantic relationships. When you don%26#039;t have a healthy sex life together, there%26#039;s typically problems in the relationship...yes. When one or both parties aren%26#039;t satisfied with their sex lives, that tends to bleed over into other aspects of their life and relationship. It doesn%26#039;t necessarily mean anyone is cheating...





Not wanting sex has nothing to do with being gay. Homosexuals like sex too...it means there%26#039;s an issue. They are either no longer attracted to their partner, they are too tired or stressed to be interested in sex, something has occured to diminish their libido, or something else.





That%26#039;s your explanation. Not sure where you got your misinformation, but I hope this cleared things up a bit. Rarely is anything just black or white dear...




I think personality in some ways ties to sex because if you really like the other person your more willing to go out of bounds in being a bit more naughty to please each other. Plus personality ties back to trusting each other, that what happens in bed is b/w you guys %26amp; after having a crazy night I like to cuddle %26amp; feel all warm and safe.





I don%26#039;t think having an unhealthy sex life means that your partner is cheating on you. Well maybe if you seriously never do it. Though I think people have unhealthy sex lives because they get so caught up in everything else in the world that they forget each other. What everyone wants most is to feel loved and as people get comfortable with each other they often forget that they should express their love towards each other constantly. By hugging, kissing, or just simply spending time together like go out on a date and just enjoy. Make each other feel wanted ;)





Na I don%26#039;t believe just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to sleep with you it means they%26#039;re gay. Sex is the most intimate thing a couple could do, so often even when each person knows they shouldn%26#039;t someone would get attached because it%26#039;s just that closeness being share. So maybe someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex because they don%26#039;t have that level of trust %26amp; most people don%26#039;t just want one night stands. Since one night stands are kinda empty. I think a lot of people who are scared of relationships would prefer friends with benefits or F*** buddies. Idk... simply it could be there%26#039;s just no attraction so move on.





I think saving until marriage is cool, but really like 90% of people don%26#039;t wait. %26amp; if you do wait %26amp; realized that you ended up with someone who isn%26#039;t as sexually adventurous then, yea... kinda sucks for you.




Feelings is part personality. You want to express how you feel towards the other person. But having sex can send another person mixed signals... whether you really like them, or like them enough in the mean time to just %26quot;hook up%26quot; with them. If someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex, why would they have to be g a y ? I don%26#039;t get that part. G a y people like sex? Anyways... People don%26#039;t have to put out in order to keep people interested in them.




You know, I never understood that either.


Sex should be done with love behind it,


because if not, that%26#039;s how lust forms.


The physical attraction to a body,


witch in the end means nothing.




Just because someone does not want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they are gay!!





Maybe they are waiting until marriage. Or maybe they are just not ready.




if y%26#039;all had sex before and she don%26#039;t want to no more maybe she thinks your not good in bed




I agree with the second answer. Just because someone doesn%26#039;t want to have sex doesn%26#039;t mean they%26#039;re gay!




It%26#039;s the modern society!


What they think to be alright is very stupid!


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