How do you prove to a guy that you are better than other girls?

I really like this guy but he has other girls who he likes. How do I prove that I am better than them?



Yesterday me and a friend of mine were talking to her brother about these things and he suggested us to dress nice, not slutty but slightly provocative, and to never make the first move. He said we should let the guy make the first move because if you make it he will most likely reject you instinctively.


You should try to stay around him more, but try not to look like you're falling for him. Guys like challenge.


Dress nice, put on a slight shadow of makeup, act clever and try to be yourself, even though in these cases it's hard to be one's self.




There are several ways to do this. One way is to try and look your BEST every day, like not dressing nicely (not slutty!), looking like you got a good night's sleep, and just to look healthy! Another is to (but not in a braggy-way) accentuate your talents (like sports, an instrument, academics, etc...). Something else guys LOVE is when you are passionate about a sport they love--I am personally a basketball junkie, but don't be FAKE because you'll get caught soon enough. But take an interest in what he does, what he thinks, and build a good relationship with him so he knows you're someone he can trust AND he likes, not just some slut that wants him just so she can say she has a boyfriend. Friendships are one of the solid rocks in a relationship (I had a friend whose relationship was in trouble because she felt like she and her boyfriend weren't really FRIENDS anymore, and they became really good friends because of that and now it's going great), so just be honest YOU, and be a true friend to him.





Hope I helped!




reading the first answer, im a 14/m and i dont really like needing to be challenged. i want to know shes interested. otherwise im afraid ill just get hurt from trying,





show intrest but dont chase after him.




if you love him, tell him that you love him good luck (: