we still talk every once in awhile i will see her at school next year im 15 and she is 14 she tries to call me and see me but her dad always has some ***** looking after her and making sure she isnt with me and i know it's only to protect her but isnt that a bit way to far?
Just chill, you're both still young and sneaking around isn't going to do any good for either of you. Unfortunately if something bad ever happens it will feel much worse knowing there were lies on top of that.
Try to have group gatherings. Always remember that a relationship based on lies and deceit will never go far - because no one will gain any trust (she may eventually not trust you, her parents certainly won't trust you and they'll trust her even less) Time will come and if you're smart show them you're a good kid who deserves their trust.
I had two friends that were in that same situation. Basically they had to break it because they got into some trouble together, but they still loved each other, so they still saw each other secretly outside of school and during school. if u want to meet outside of school u gotta be EXTRA sneaky and have a real good plan. Have her say she's going out jogging and meet her at the park or something,stuff like that.
Be careful though, after awhile their plan started falling apart because her parents kept finding out. Sooo either take the chance or leave it.
her getting in trouble and feeling bad about lying all the time, and not having a real relationship made them break up for good like a year later.
You must leave her alone, you both will grow up soon and will be able to be together, if you were meant to be together, you're just still a kid and have a lifetime before you, be patient take it slow, you'll see it will get here before you know it. Right now it's just puppy love .
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